I've been thinking deeply about something I realized yesterday that I don't think many readers, including myself, realize very often or at all. Unless a time skip is made obvious, the time between chapters in the Naruto world does not exist. I'm quoting myself below so that I don't have to repeat most of it again.
Last I remember, not even a day or two had passed since the war began in their universe, is it really that odd that Naruto wasn't fantasizing over Sakura for a day or two?
Saying something is less relevant because nothing has happened in the last x amount of chapters is the wrong way to go about things and only indicates that you are not reading the manga as a whole, but rather looking at each chapter as if they stand alone and nothing in-between the last important moment and the present matters. When you're looking for relevance in a characters actions, you must think about it in THEIR terms, not real world terms.
In THEIR terms, we haven't seen Naruto and Hinata have a true conversation for 4-5 years (on panel). In their terms, Naruto has been back in the village for a little over a year (which is about 5 years to us). In their terms, Neji died all of 2-3 minutes ago (even though it may feel like weeks for us)
"Naruto hasn't thought about Sakura in 100 chapters!" is misleading. Naruto hasn't thought about Sakura since the Summit arc... well actually he thought about her along with others after he met his mother while training with Bee, which was what, the same day he found out that the war was happening, the same day he confronted Iruka and ran off anyway, the same day he split up and saved his friends (including Sakura and Hinata) from danger, the same day he met all the Jinchurikki and made friends with Kurama, the same day Neji died and he held Hinata's hand, and probably the same day he'll defeat Obito at the very least.
In the future, please consider how time flows in their world.
Think about this war, this war is only 2 days long or so so far. To US, the war has been on for months I think? Or has a year passed already? (Think about it, that entire Sasuke/Kabuto arc lasted at most an hour or less) Maybe we're all complaining too early about some characters not getting enough screen time. Kishi has already fit in so much into 2 Naruto days, it might take longer to find a fitting place for everyone to get their well deserved spotlight.
That said, I think Kishi has screwed himself over. He's putting too little into each chapter that it's unrealistically stretching everything out. The longer he takes to do something, the more the readers perception of time is skewered. I realize this is a problem he has always had. He extends arcs so long, readers loose interest or they lose site of how long something has really taken within the Naruto world.
And of course, another problem comes when the pairing debates are brought up. Many times, be it our side or other sides, the argument is "Well, -insert name- and -insert name- haven't interacted in -x amount of chapters-. That must mean whatever they have if insignificant."
Normally, this argument is pretty bad and falls flat. Even when used against certain characters (which even I have done), it is not the best argument. For example, I think I have complained that we haven't seen Sakura do anything amazing in x amount of chapters, but now I realize, Sakura did something amazing not even a day ago in their world by taking down a Zetsu and giving the alliance some info on them. Using chapters as a time reference is bad, chapters =/= time passed.
Another thing you might see is "Naruto hasn't even though about Sakura for x amount of chapters". Again, chapters =/= time passed. If we assume Sakura's confession happened 7 days before the current time of the most recent chapter, than Naruto has not spoken to/seen/had time to think about Sakura about their problems at all. (He did think about her -and others- when his mother told him to make good friends I believe) A week in their time is nothing compared to the years passed where we have not seen Naruto ever having a normal conversation with Hinata. Who doubts that after this war is over that things will return to normal somewhat and we will see Sakura and Naruto interacting on a normal basis? (seemingly everyday or a few times a week in their world)
As another member brought up, if we look at time in their world, Sakura was nearly killed by Sasuke only a week ago AT THE MOST. Should we really find it too strange that Sasuke is the first thing she thinks about when she reflects whether the guy she likes is a 'good guy'? In actuality, this moment should drive home the fact that Sasuke isn't a good guy, Sakura has accepted this, and that she does not view any love she has for him as a good thing at all.
My point is, whether you're in a debate with someone over a characters relevance (like the Sakura not doing anything for x amount of chapters) or if you're in a debate over how much interaction a pairing has had (like the Naruto not thinking about Sakura for x amount of chapters), don't be perplexed. The amount of chapters does not equal how much time has flowed in their world. When you decide to reference time, remember to actually reference time and not the amount of chapters that has passed between point A and point B.
Kishi makes it difficult of a normal reader who does not look too deep into the story to realize the time passed in each chapter is incredibly short. I feel an arc should never be 6 months+ long, you begin to lose time perception at that point.
Question for you:
There are many other factors that tie into pairing of choice when it comes to the Naruto fandom, but does anyone agree time perception has a big role in that?
Have you ever been caught in the trap of time vs chapters? (Don't be afraid to admit it.

Did I post this in the right section?
Have your views on any recent developments changed based on this essay of mine?
I had more questions, but I forgot them.