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#1 AyaMoto74

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Posted 09 November 2008 - 06:18 AM

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Posted 10 November 2008 - 09:15 AM

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Today though I was thinking about it, and even though I do plan to marry him in December 2010, I think I shouldn't. I MEAN, I WILL MARRY HIM IN 2010 IF HE ASKS, but, we'll most likely be still living with my parents by then (I'll be almost 19!) So unless I save enough money to move out by then, I really don't plan on getting married and going home to my parents and sister I mean, I am absolutely grateful that we can stay with them as long as we need, but unless we have some time to ourselves the first few days then I really want our own place before we get married. Know what I mean?


I'm sure you really do love him, and he sounds like a nice guy, but I'd reccomend that you don't rush into things.

I'll be honest, I never had a relationship like the one you have, but I've known a young couple since high school. They went to college for 1 year, then dropped out and got married. Shortly after, they had two kids, and just recently they split up. The fact is that getting into a committed relationship before you're 20 can be difficult to keep; trust me, the two of you will still be figuring things out about yourselves, and you're very likely to change over that time period. Also, getting a job even with a degree is the biggest pain in the world; it would be tougher when the two of you are trying to support one another. While I don't know exactly where kids fall into this plan of yours, once you have them they require LOTS of attention; it would make work and education almost impossible.

I'm not trying to tell you what to do, and if anything I said offended you, I'm sorry. I'm just trying to let you know my own personal observations on marrying young, and try to give you a heads up on what to expect if the two of you hook up that soon. The choice is yours, just make it wisely.

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Posted 12 November 2008 - 03:43 AM

aww, Kara-chan. Hope your day will go better, if not, there is still H&E Family here if you need anyone to talk with ^^


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Posted 19 November 2008 - 03:09 PM

QUOTE (AyaMoto74 @ Nov 19 2008, 12:38 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I really hope I'm never like this again. Right now I honestly sound like I'm bringing one of my story-characters out instead of being me. That's really . . . how angry I am right now that I'm losing sleep. Like I want to cry because it's so unfair. And here comes the anger tears . . . I really hope that you guys never have to see me like this again. Nor Andy to ever see me like this ever. You all know that I am NEVER like this . . . great, now I'm about to cry . . . I don't even know what's wrong with me right now. It's like this whole waking up thing really hurt me for no reason.

I have to go to sleep guys or do something. I can't stay on this computer forever. I'm really sorry that this post is up for you guys to read it, and I know this is true, don't convince me - that this was a waste of time. It was. I just did something totally inproductive for like an hour just to get out my feelings and I could care less if you guys read it, but it's like, you guys CAN read it. I'm not sure if you guys know what I mean, but it's like . . . basically I wrote this up here for my feelings, not so you guys can read it and feel bad for me or anything and post in reply to it. (Jeez, the side of my leg is really hurting . . .)

That's what the blogs are here for. For you to express yourself, and any kind of feelings that you are experiencing not just the happy, cherry feelings all the time. I hope that you feel better later a_hug.gif

#5 Rix the Very Affectionate Lego!

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Posted 21 November 2008 - 12:45 AM

Hey now! what are you counting down until D: I wanna know xD

#6 Rix the Very Affectionate Lego!

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Posted 22 November 2008 - 08:25 PM

E-dating?

#7 Rix the Very Affectionate Lego!

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Posted 28 November 2008 - 11:25 PM

That must be cool tongue.gif I hope everything works out ^^ E-dating is an extremely emotional act. I will have you know when you two meet assuming you talk like everyday you will feel like you have known each other for 20 years xD.

#8 Sakura Blossoms

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Posted 27 January 2009 - 05:33 PM

QUOTE (AyaMoto74 @ Jan 27 2009, 08:58 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
503 days!! It's so close!

Wow, do I have something to tell you guys!! IT'S SO AMAZING. Like you guys don't even understand. This is huge!

Me and Andy will be together without having to hide it.

YEAAAAH!!!! So he emails my phone at 12.41 AM on Sunday night and I was asleep, so he emailed again and again (12.42, 12.49) saying KARA WAKE UP I HAVE GOOD NEWS ETC ETC so of course I wake up and jump on my computer and he tells me that his parents talked to him about me and him and how they can't stop him from being with me so basically . . . Next Friday he's going to be off punishment and sometime soon his mom will call my mom and they'll talk about the reasons why we were restricted from each other and ask if my mom will monitor me or not. Even though I don't exactly like that (because my mom does know why and I did tell Andy's mom myself that I told her, and the fact that I don't need to be monitored) hey, I'm not complaining!

Our relationship can finally go back to normal. I'm not sure if he's getting his computer back, but that would be a nice plus - if not, phone is all I need! Ugh I'm just so happy!! biggrin.gif Yesterday I partied with Keyonna (Saku~Kit) with a carton of ice cream and craploads of sandwiches th_glomp.gif I CAN'T WAIT!!

Even better, there's a slight chance of his coming to visit this summer or some other time before high school ends . . . If that happens, I will be freaking ecstatic. I am sooo taking pictures and posting them on H&E (after all, we are together because of the you :thumbs: [and Saku~Kit, and Kishi, and Naruto . . . wow.png])

So right now I'm just getting ready to go take my English regents, I'm just so hyper!! I'll try to keep my mind off of my happiness while I'm taking my test :teehee: Wish me luck everyone!

I love Andy so much smile.gif Thank you to he and everyone who's ever supported us, I really appreciate it the most over everything else a_hug.gif Our relationship is finally . . . completely assured. Nothing literally can go wrong. I'm so happy! I love you Andy love.gif

I have to go get ready to leave now everyone, but I promise I'll be back on later happy.gif See you all!

Kara

I'm really really happy for ya, kiddo a_hug.gif

Long distance relationships really *are* hard to maintain, but once you have decided that you and that special someone *will* do all that you can to make it work, then it's truly worth any kind of troubles that may try to get in the way happy.gif

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Posted 28 January 2009 - 03:26 AM

Woa, I'm glad it work out for you. I know we don't talk much (if any) but i do at least know you're a nice person in H&E. hope everything goes fine for you.

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I'll try to keep my mind off of my happiness while I'm taking my test


my advice, don't. instead, keep the mood but not the thought. trust me it lets you study much easier.


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#10 Rix the Very Affectionate Lego!

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Posted 09 March 2009 - 02:33 PM

happy birthday ^^

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Posted 19 March 2009 - 08:05 AM

AYAAAAAAAAALEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!



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pssssssssssssst!

i'm not supposed to be here but--





neepu?





he's stalking your blog D:




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I WAS NEVER HERE D:




to the rhetorical question in your bday thread, YES th_glomp.gif


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