James, I hate to pick a fight with you, but it seems you get really defensive over your opinions and are so keen on saying how others rag on your theories. Maybe it's this attitude? I noticed it in other places, too.
Really defensive? Well, it does seem that way, doesn't it? Then again how can you not be defensive when every time you have an opinion, theory, speculation, or idea...you get told you're wrong or you have no idea what you are talking about regardless if what you say is right or wrong. If you noticed it is always with the same people that this "attitude" pops up, but I am sure you have noticed that pattern by now.
Fair enough, I am defensive. I am not denying this. However, can you tell me who isn't defensive in this forum in some way? Darkrerst here is just as defensive, but he plays a different kind of defense play. He attacks your intelligence or tries to anyway. I saw it in the debate thread and he has done it just recently too. He is smart though, I will give him that. He has a way to attack you and make it seem so innocent at the same time. You think I am the only one who is upset with him or was offended by his posts?
Tell me how would you feel if someone replied to your posts saying everytime how you "don't understand what a word means" even though you know that maybe he was the one who missed the point entirely? Of course, Dark is the not only person I have had....run-ins with.
Here is the real kicker, my friend, and one that is rather interesting. Would you believe that at least two admins/moderators are extremely defensive, possibly even more than me? In fact, I have had one moderator spying on me the whole time checking every move I make. I know you are probably laughing at this right now thinking I am might be paranoid or crazy. That's alright. I probably would be laughing too in your position, but you see I had a certain moderator get real defensive on me some time ago before you were even on this site over the matter of the word "hypocrite." I didn't even mention anyone by name, but rather remark on a paradox of logic that this forum sometimes emits. Sure enough, this moderator just absolutely loses it and rages at me.
Other times I have seen other members wanting to give a honest opinion on certain matters and that certain moderator called them trolls and threatened with bans. That's their kind of defensive play. "Bans." If they don't like what you say, they can easily ban you for it. In fact, they almost threatened to shut down this site because of it. If that is not being defensive, I have no idea what is. What's even worse is when it comes to "bans" there is no obvious sign or declaration. You just get tossed. Of course, not all of the moderators or admins are like this so don't think I am calling everyone out on it. Just the ones I know who actually have done such a thing.
You see, I don't have a problem with every member on this forum and most I get along with quite well. Especially true when they know me in person and see what kind of person I really am. Hard to tell with just text on a forum.
Hell, in a way you are being defensive right now: "I don't want to start fight with you." Usually when someone says something like that or "No offense" it usually means that what they do say is going to be offensive to someone or be an insult to start a fight. Hey, I am not here to fighter either, so no worries from me. I am not going to do anything to you or of the sort. Just kind of showing a reality that maybe some might have missed. It is ironic actually.
Let's see, recently I got told by a mod that I have no right to criticize people. What's ironic and funny about this is that the same person who says this is also the same person who likes to criticize people too and probably far worse than I ever could. It is amazing how so many can be so afraid of criticism on this forum like they committed a crime and holding some guilty conscious. As for me? Well, if I was afraid of it I wouldn't be writing this post right now. I can only imagine the moderators reading this and thinking of me as some kind of smarmy of sorts or thinking that I think of myself as a higher authority to anyone here. I hate to disappoint, but it is not the case with me. Instead, I am just the guy who is not afraid to say things that a good chunk of the people on this forum always wanted to say, but are too afraid to. I am not some freedom fighter, but rather I just want other people to have a voice when everyone else tries to shut them down.
Maybe I just want some members....some good members to come back for good and not be afraid of bullies that do exists here on the forums. Do you know what it feels like on this forum when all you want to do is remain positive or have their own viewpoint of things only to have these bullies come in and make them feel that if they do not agree with them they feel like they are not true members? Of course, as many of the moderators and admins remind us everyday, you can easily just glance past such posts and ignore. Same could be said for such bullies on this site. They could easily ignore the posts they don't agree with, but they continue to fight with everyone that disagree with them. Why? I am defensive, but then again I find it better than purposely seeking people who disagree with me and trying to beat them down emotionally.
Take example above" I didn't reply to Dark with my first post, but Dark made it his mission to say something against me despite knowing I down right disagree with him. Oh sure, he has the privilege to give his opinion and respond to me, but he also has the ability to ignore everything I say. Why do you seek a fight? For pleasure, for purpose? Does Dark see me as a worthy opponent or likes to troll to get under my skin and see if I crack? I have no idea, but sometimes I play defense because people seek me out to argue and blow down my theories with an attitude like "Well, I am right and you are wrong." (Don't worry, Darkrerst. I know you are reading this and probably thinking of things to reply with, but it won't be necessary. I probably won't be here that long to read it anyway.)
I wouldn't have to be defensive if a person wasn't so offensive. Of course, I can debate normally as well. Me and NaruSaku4life debate all the time. Listen to the podcast if you have a chance and you can see I can debate pretty fairly and give everyone a chance to give their rightful opinions. I can do it without being defensive at all. I do crack a joke or two of course, but it is all in good fun. However, some here don't like to have that kind of fun and instead take everything as a threat to their logic.
So who really is the defensive one?
I am going to take a guess and say that I shouldn't be mentioning Darkrerst here because I am calling someone out and harassing them. If that is the case and someone brings this up, if I may, why is Darkrerst harassing me? At least, that is how I take it. He always has an argument with me even if I am not even responding to a post of his, so why does he always have to respond to my post and harass me? In the words Nate River once told me "Sounds like someone has a problem disagreeing with people."
Right about now, I am probably going to have someone from the moderator team...and I have a good feeling of who one of those two people are...and one of two things might happen: Either I get a warning and my post possibly deleted or they might ban me at this point. As I said last time, do what you have to do. I am not afraid of bans anymore and the sad part is banning me now would only prove my point I have mentioned above. Again, not being smarmy or riding my high-horse, just stating a reality I am aware of.
Truth be told, I am not defensive because I am threatened by people. I am defensive because I am tired of some things some members do on this forum. We used to have good people here all the time, but some don't even want to come back because of these reasons. When I hear these people out and how they tell me they felt hurt because of the members of this forum or because the moderators or admins are not doing anything, I feel sad for them. I feel sad because it feels like nobody listens. So I say something. Maybe I want things to change and for certain members to stop some of the things that they are doing. They don't have to agree on the same things or "follow the crowd" so to speak, but instead let people feel what they want to feel and think what they want to think.
People always think I am so shallow because I "have a hard time disagreeing with people" or some stupid thing they accuse me of. Did anyone care to ask why I am doing some of these things or why some people leave this forum? No. All they ever do is "assume" why I do what I do and say "if you can't take it, get out." What's worse is if you say it to them, they get mad saying "you have no right to say such a thing." You think whatever you want about me: Call me defensive, call me arrogant, call me whatever you feel makes you happy. I rather take that punishment than see my friends on here get harassed and wind up as upset as they do unable to do anything about it.
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