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#21 CloudMountainJuror

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Posted 26 July 2010 - 04:10 AM

QUOTE (Muffins? @ Jul 25 2010, 11:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Nope no bashing just saying he's the only person I've meet on this site who ships another couple primarily beside NaruSaku.
I don't understand why this thread was created it's basically saying "Why can't I bash?".

"Why Can't We State Our Opinions in a Logical Way Without Being Criticized" is more like it.
Again, I saw a topic closed earlier today that was closed partially for bashing when there was no bashing in it, just solid facts.

QUOTE (LadyCupcake @ Jul 25 2010, 11:02 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
But have you seen him bashing NS?

No, because he follows the rules.

And maybe in addition, he knows better than to go to war with a fully armed tank while only having a water balloon on him.

Edited by zacrathedemon5, 26 July 2010 - 04:13 AM.

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#22 Cupcake-chan

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Posted 26 July 2010 - 04:11 AM

Look, you're the only one who is complaining. Just... stop wining and follow the rules. That's all there is to it.

And sorry for being rude...

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Posted 26 July 2010 - 04:12 AM

QUOTE (zacrathedemon5 @ Jul 25 2010, 10:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
"Why Can't We State Our Opinions in a Logical Way Without Being Criticized" is more like it.
Again, I saw a topic closed earlier today that was closed partially for bashing when there was no bashing in it, just solid facts.

Well if your stating your opinion in a logical way then you shouldn't worry about bashing. If you truly are doing what you say you aren't bashing. Also could you link closed thread please?

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Posted 26 July 2010 - 04:19 AM

QUOTE (LadyCupcake @ Jul 25 2010, 11:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Look, you're the only one who is complaining. Just... stop wining and follow the rules. That's all there is to it.

And sorry for being rude...

How is that being rude?
And I'm just wondering why the rules are the way they are. No one has proven me incorrect on my views yet, which is what I'm seeking: a good answer that utterly makes me understand.

QUOTE (Muffins? @ Jul 25 2010, 11:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Well if your stating your opinion in a logical way then you shouldn't worry about bashing. If you truly are doing what you say you aren't bashing. Also could you link closed thread please?

Here it is: http://www.narusaku....topic=10333&hl=
Only facts were stated, and Derock closed it, saying:

"Ok... I'm sensing some tension over here. I'm going to closed the thread.

Not only just for because of the bashing, its for the same topics that are for the Debate thread."


Here's my problem: "Not only just for because of the bashing"
Uh...I'm sorry? What bashing?

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Posted 26 July 2010 - 04:37 AM

So you'd rather bash everyday, insulting other people's beliefs and views? Maybe you're not doing it intentionally, but you'll still hurt others. If H&E didn't have rules against bashing, it would eventually fall apart with all the insulting and hateful behavior. No one want's that.
If you feel that you need to bash, and you're talking specifically to another person, just PM that person, have a private conversation about the way you feel. But don't burden people with your negative mood and comments.
And also, so what if other people bash, it doesn't mean you have to do it as well. Just keep your mind cool, and your negative comments to yourself. That's all you have to do.
Now can we close this thread?

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Posted 26 July 2010 - 04:37 AM

QUOTE (zacrathedemon5 @ Jul 25 2010, 11:59 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
If this is a gathering site for all pairings, why does it say "THE NARUTO X SAKURA FANCLUB" in the logo and have a picture involving NaruSaku? Let alone why is the site called Heaven & Earth, a clear NaruSaku reference?


It's not needed, true, but some people may sometimes accidentally slip into a slight bash unconsciously (or is that just me?).

Are you sure you're not just trolling at this point?

It's called "THE NARUTO X SAKURA FANCLUB" as you shouted it, because it's a forum that focuses on NaruSaku. But it also welcomes members who enjoy other pairings with open arms. Would you like us to change the title to "THE NARUTO X SAKURA FANCLUB AND ALL PAIRINGS WELCOME TO PARTICIPATE AND INTERACT FORUM".


QUOTE (zacrathedemon5 @ Jul 26 2010, 12:19 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
How is that being rude?
And I'm just wondering why the rules are the way they are. No one has proven me incorrect on my views yet, which is what I'm seeking: a good answer that utterly makes me understand.

Exactly how much more do you need than Smiter created Heaven and Earth this way. If you want a site that allows bashing please make your way to Naruto Forums (NF). You're allowed to do pretty much anything rude/bashing/inappropriate there to your heart's content. We are not NF and take particular pride in the fact that ALL pairings are welcomed here, no questions asked (except by you apparently)

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Posted 26 July 2010 - 04:58 AM

QUOTE (Sakura Blossoms @ Jul 25 2010, 11:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I'm sorry but I just have to ask, are your being purposely obtuse? Are you sure you're not just trolling at this point?

It's called "THE NARUTO X SAKURA FANCLUB" as you shouted it, because it's a forum that focuses on NaruSaku. But it also welcomes members who enjoy other pairings with open arms. Would you like us to change the title to "THE NARUTO X SAKURA FANCLUB AND ALL PAIRINGS WELCOME TO PARTICIPATE AND INTERACT FORUM".



Exactly how much more do you need than Smiter created Heaven and Earth this way. If you want a site that allows bashing please make your way to Naruto Forums (NF). You're allowed to do pretty much anything vulgar/rude/bashing/inappropriate there to your heart's content. We are not NF and take particular pride in the fact that ALL pairings are welcomed here, no questions asked (except by you apparently)

Yes, I'm sure. I'm not that much of a jerk.
And I typed "THE NARUTO X SAKURA FANCLUB" as I did because that's exactly what it says pinch.gif The letters are in all caps up there so I typed in all caps.

And...would I be overdoing it if I answered "yes, that would make a lot more sense"?

QUOTE (LadyCupcake @ Jul 25 2010, 11:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
So you'd rather bash everyday, insulting other people's beliefs and views? Maybe you're not doing it intentionally, but you'll still hurt others. If H&E didn't have rules against bashing, it would eventually fall apart with all the insulting and hateful behavior. No one want's that.
If you feel that you need to bash, and you're talking specifically to another person, just PM that person, have a private conversation about the way you feel. But don't burden people with your negative mood and comments.
And also, so what if other people bash, it doesn't mean you have to do it as well. Just keep your mind cool, and your negative comments to yourself. That's all you have to do.
Now can we close this thread?

...Alright, that there is a kind of answer I was looking for.
1. You shot down my views with pure logic.
2. You stated the possible repercussions.
3. You stated an alternate way to relieve the frustration I was dealing with (which takes the place of having to change my beliefs).

Yes, you can. You've finally provided a good reply that shut me up and told me what I could do instead of unnecessarily bashing. Thank you. My complaints for this topic have just been refuted. I'm done.

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Posted 26 July 2010 - 05:00 AM

YAY~~

Okay, now someone can close this thread biggrin.gif

#29 Muffins?

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Posted 26 July 2010 - 05:04 AM

Man it's resolved right when I decide to click on it tongue.gif

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Posted 26 July 2010 - 05:06 AM

QUOTE (Muffins? @ Jul 26 2010, 12:04 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Man it's resolved right when I decide to click on it tongue.gif

Maybe next time sweatdrop.gif (If there is one...let's hope not)

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Posted 26 July 2010 - 05:07 AM

Enough! argh1.png

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Posted 26 July 2010 - 05:07 AM

QUOTE (zacrathedemon5 @ Jul 25 2010, 11:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Maybe next time sweatdrop.gif (If there is one...let's hope not)

Hopefully, if any new members bring this up we can jut re direct them to this thread.

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Posted 26 July 2010 - 05:08 AM

QUOTE (Muffins? @ Jul 26 2010, 12:07 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hopefully, if any new members bring this up we can jut re direct them to this thread.

But this thread will be closed won't it?

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Posted 26 July 2010 - 05:12 AM

QUOTE (zacrathedemon5 @ Jul 25 2010, 11:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
But this thread will be closed won't it?

You can still link it so no one has to bother re-typing everything they said.

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#35 CloudMountainJuror

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Posted 26 July 2010 - 05:13 AM

QUOTE (Muffins? @ Jul 26 2010, 12:12 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You can still link it so no one has to bother re-typing everything they said.

Oh, good point. Alright.

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Posted 26 July 2010 - 05:14 AM

I feel now that everything is resolved we should do something to celebrate.... Like a dance party! narusakuct7.gif

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Posted 26 July 2010 - 05:23 AM

QUOTE (Muffins? @ Jul 26 2010, 12:14 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I feel now that everything is resolved we should do something to celebrate.... Like a dance party! narusakuct7.gif

I'm...not a dancer sweatdrop.gif ...how about we all eat muffins? tongue.gif I like chocolate muffins.

Edited by zacrathedemon5, 26 July 2010 - 05:23 AM.

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Posted 26 July 2010 - 05:28 AM

You see, that's why I want to be a mod, so that when there's a thread that needs to be closed, I could close it... BECAUSE NO ONE IS BOTHERING TO CLOSE IT argh1.png

... and I don't like chocolate muffins. Cupcake's FTW

Edited by LadyCupcake, 26 July 2010 - 05:30 AM.


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Posted 26 July 2010 - 05:31 AM

QUOTE (LadyCupcake @ Jul 26 2010, 12:28 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You see, that's why I want to be a mod, so that when there's a thread that needs to be closed, I could close it... BECAUSE NO ONE IS BOTHERING TO CLOSE IT.

... and I don't like chocolate muffins. Cupcake's FTW

But we're having fun while it's still open omfg.gif
And you would...LadyCupcake pictureem0.gif ...Chocolate cupcakes are good too though sweat.gif ...but chocolate chip cookies own all...

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Posted 26 July 2010 - 05:33 AM

Fun? Just a few minutes ago we were arguing... fu.png




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