1. I took a screenshot of the message she sent to everybody.
2. I reserved a meeting with a mental clinic. I was planning to act like a person in depression. Because if you are diagnosed by the doctor as having depression AND the reason is work, the government is strictly going to check the company. My sister, my uncle, my aunt from both sides have been diagnosed as depression. I thought acting as one shouldn't be so hard.
3. I planned to call my lawyer so I can sue her/the company for "putting me under depression and making it impossible for me to work" and gain cash.
Well everything was going fine and dandy until my surrogate father called me(he's not my real father. He's a successful businessman who treats me like I'm his real kid. In reality, he treats me better than his real son. He teaches me a lot about his business and make me help his company sometimes so I can learn about business. Anyways, I admire him).
So I told him that I planned to destroy this kitten. Then he got angry.
Him: So if you stoop down to their level are you going to be satisfied? I always thought you were the guy who never cared about the kitten people put you through and continuously aim higher. These people never mattered to you. What's wrong with you now?
Ignore the people who try put people down for having different opinions. That's not how a business works.
The next day I still thought that what my surrogate father said was too idealistic and that he didn't understand me. I worked feeling annoyed and unsatisfied. But then I got called by my boss and that changed my feelings completely.
He said that the project I worked on was very successful and that he was very glad with the results I made during work. I was very happy to hear that because during that time I consciously made an effort to make the quality of my work more higher so to step myself up. The boss realized!
And then at that moment I realized that's the only thing I aim for. To be more competent. All the other troubles seemed very insignificant, stupid and a waste of time. There are more important things. And for me, being competent and recognized is more important than being liked.
Later that day, the HR asked me if I had any requests towards that girl. I replied I had no requests and I don't care about that case anymore. The HR was surprised. But that's okay, that girl is only like a mosquito to me.
In the end, everything went very well for me at work. My concentration has heightened, the reports I made are praised, and people ask me out a lot to have dinner or lunch.
Edit: the only complaint I have right now is that I have to live in the hotel during weekends because there is too much work and that I literally cannot sleep even for an hour from Saturday to Sunday.
Edited by ramenanmitsu, 04 February 2015 - 01:58 PM.