And that is why this is the catch-22
Either you say this scene is not important and cant be counted as SS development or you do count it and realize that the whole thing is one big fat lie and Sakura fell in love with a disguise and not the man himself.
Geez, iCarly did a better job at explaining this. "She is not in love with you....she is in love with what you did."
Which reminds me. There was an interview between Kishimoto and Shonen Jump back in 2006. And one of the questions/responses was quite interesting.
Shonen Jump: Which of your three students would make the best ninja instructor?
Kishimoto (talking as Kakashi): I think it would be Sakura. She has flaws in her personality, like stalking Sasuke. But Sakura is the closest to being normal. Naruto is stupid, and Sasuke is not a teacher-type. He keeps to himself.
Interesting how things turn out in 2014 huh? Also another little tidbit from that same interview.
Shonen Jump: Sakura and Rock Lee don't appear to have any of the special powers that ninja like Naruto, Sasuke, or Gaara have---do you think those two characters are popular because they provide a kind of reader's-eye view of the story as it unfolds?
Kishimoto: Is Sakura popular in the U.S.? Well, Lee only has Taijutsu. And as a girl, Sakura is physically weaker than the others. So I can see why it's easy to empathize with them. They represent human weaknesses.