TheQueenB

Discuss the next databook here! (If you already have, please post whatever pictures you've found in here, as well, so that we can discuss the material here.)

EDIT- Not sure if I did this in the correct folder, though? If a Mod could help out, that would be great. Thanks!

Guys, I know that there's a high chance of us becoming canon, but please refrain from trolling or trying to provoke other people. I know that some of you have had bad experiences and/or other reasons for wanting to do so, but, please, do NOT engage in this type of behavior. It's absolutely inappropriate and counterproductive. 

If I may be frank, this type of behavior accomplishes nothing, except for causing more drama and increasing tension and anger between both sides. Ultimately, just like you guys, the recipients of these comments are human beings with their own lives and struggles. Who knows what engaging in this type of behavior will cause? These type of actions have implications that go beyond simply crowing victory; it can have consequences for a life, which is absolutely troublesome. 

Think about winning a pairing war in the grand scheme of things: It really doesn't matter, minus having a little bit of fun at first and occasionally having fond memories of it in the future. However, the implications of being aggressive about it to a person sitting at the other side of a computer or other form of technology goes much further than that. Seeing two inkblots- Yes, that's what animated characters ultimately are.- realizing a relationship does not compare to the impact that your actions could have on an actual life.

Think about all the different stories in the news in which a person was humiliated/bullied and the drastic measures that they've had to take to cope with it. What I've seen some of you saying isn't far too different from what has already been seen in these various tragedies that have taken place, which is rather terrifying to contemplate. Take a step back and realize that being a human being is far more important and satisfying than simply being right over a story, regardless of how significant it has been in your life. As I've said, in the overall context of our lives, how important is it that two fictional characters get married? 

On that note, please don't respond to anything provocative, either. Once again, it ultimately does nothing, except causing you and the other person stress and pain. The drama that is sure to ensue will not yield anything positive for either party. It may be hurtful for you to see or be approached by that type of material, but it's not too important to merit a reaction, when you look at things objectively.

I don't mean to be high and mighty or to make assumptions or accusations about you guys, but I implore you all to think about the consequences of your actions, which will extend beyond a few moments of satisfaction. 

I love you all so much, and thank you for reading and considering this. <3

Can't wait for this ship to sail!

Hi, everyone! I just signed up on here, after months of checking out the forums for updates and such. Some of you may know me as je-ne-blog-pas from Tumblr! Looking forward to having fun. 

Edit: Oops! Made a typo in the title of the thread. Sorry!