I think when you've killed as many people as Obito has then you have forfeited any right to demand anything like that. No matter how much he screams that he wants to make up for what he did, the victims are within their right to say F-you.
He is entitled to nothing, but punishment and retribution. If he is given anything else then it is only as an act of mercy those he wronged chose to give to an unworthy wretch.
Ah, I can see your point Kage Nate And I won't say that it's wrong. Not at all, but only that it is not what Obito wants but what ultimately is the choice to be made? will he be forgiven or won't he? I've made this argument before on the choice of forgiveness in one of my college essays. What people are torn about in forgiveness is whether or not they are forgiving the person or the act. Also what prompts them to forgive if at all. Let me cut down the bulk of my argument into two parts
Forgiving the person or the action.
First of all I'd like to ask, when you hold a grudge against someone is it because of them as a person or something that they did? If it is their actions that make you despise them then it is safe to say you hate the wrong committed, not the person itself really. Well I would argue that personally. If you just hate a person, even if they did nothing to you at all, that is a different matter. Anyways what I argued was that forgiveness is first of all whether you forgive the person or the action(s) they did. I differentiate hating the person and hating the act because you can like or dislike/hate a person, when they have done nothing to you, or anyone at all. It's called First impression isn't it? Like wise, you can admire a person but hate what they have done. Does that make sense? The essential thing here is what you forgive here, the wrong done or the person. If you cannot forgive the act, then I would agree because no wrong against another human being should be forgiven. Destroying lives is definitely not something that should be forgiven, or else we're asking for the same thing to happen again. the person on the other hand is only that, a person. To hate a person and for it to be justified, we must examine the individual and understand what or who drives them, why and how it drives them. If it is something that you can relate to, and makes them more sympathetic, then it'd be pretty hard to hate them right? And if you still hate them because you still despise what they did then that is just moves back to hating the action I would say.
Reasons for forgiving
Why do we forgive someone? that is a question I usually ask myself and others. (though not directly to their faces heh heh) Is it because we believe that it makes us the better person? Or that we believe that it will give us some sort of reward or benefit e.g. a better afterlife or something like that? but what if that is not the case? What if forgiving someone does not grant us a paradise after death, or we don't get what we want after trying so hard to forgive someone? And I would say that not one person on this earth is better or worse than another. Why? Because we are all human beings, and to be human is to be flawed. No one is a complete goody two shoes, nor are they a complete monster, and if they seem that way it's because it's either a choice or something beyond their control because of how their brain functions. Back on topic, the point is , even if we don't become better individuals than others or we don't benefit from forgiving, would we still forgive? I would say that is ultimately what decides a person's character. Would someone do something good or evil ( however those are interpreted), even if they do not benefit from it? Who knows? that is a choice ultimately.
anyways The point of that essay was to call people out to reflect on their beliefs and morals. What do they forgive and why do they forgive? And this poses the same question to Obito too. Do we hate him, and if so Why, and why not for the exact opposite answer? Is there nothing redeemable about him? Do we really hate him, or do we hate what he did? And most of all, how does each of our own individual choice reflect on us when we judge him? I just want everyone to consult their most genuine thoughts before deciding on this, that is all. That is, I do not want anyone here deciding based on such thoughts like "He's a monster and I would would never do such a thing!!!" or "I totally feel him because I know I'd do the same thing too!!!" since (If I haven't made this clear enough) We're all human here and it is not in human nature to be absolutely sure of how to feel, think, or act at any given situation we're not prepared for. I want this to be based ultimately on this question, "How do I see this person/character as a human being even if I DON'T think, feel, or act like him? Not that it's easy to do I know, but try, though it's completely up to you. I won't say my thinking is right' to everyone, if anyone at all.
Edited by Phantom_999, 10 November 2013 - 06:06 AM.