The only time I would understand the appeal of SS is from the Chunin Exams arc to Sasuke’s departure from the Leaf. Post-Departure, I honestly can’t understand it at least in terms of Sasuke-> Sakura. They was literally no evidence. Well, there were interactions, but they were all negative.
Some argue that the times Sasuke tried to kill Sakura were either in self-defense and/or because he was mentally unstable, but what about the war arc where he lets her almost drop in lava without sparing a second glance? He was sane of mind, and they were on the same side. Where’s the excuse for no concern?
The only thing keeping NH down is their lack of interaction and Naruto’s romantic feelings for Sakura. If I had to pick the lesser of two evils, I think the answer is obvious.
the thing that is keeping BOTH NH and SS down is that both women were crushing on the idea of the guys and have shown time and time again that neither of them don't understand or know the target of their affections as a person and have no real emotional intimacy or openness with each other. Sure SS seems to come off as worse, but that is due to Sasuke being being a sociopathic douche rather than the relationship as a whole. In core concept, both both are equally disgusting and dysfunctional fantasy knockoffs of fairy tale romances, that is INSULTING to real life human Interactions.
We all know this. For a relationship to come full circle, BOTH parties must be invested and committed to it, and it can't be just the the girls showing affection, the tenderness and love must be returned and I do not see that even after they married. Not to mention, NEITHER MEN put anything on the table for the relationship AT ALL. After they "knock up" the wives to get pregnant, I see no significant interaction between neither with spouse or offspring, and no it can not be said that it reflects Japanese values because THAT NEVER HAPPENED to any other on screen couple at all!!!!!! Any one want to tell me with a straight face that you see Japanese family values with Minato and Kushina or Asuma and Kurenai? Asuma and Kurenai were not even married when they were "cuddling under the sheets!!"
Point is NH and SS are worthless, loveless marriages built on fantasy and wish fulfillment, rather than the couple committing and bonding with each other. You don't even need to be a professional sociologist or psychologist to understand that. You see how radically negative NH and SS are compared to other couples portrayed in the series.