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#221 Khaleesi

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Posted 28 January 2015 - 01:12 AM

You're not dramatic, you just don't let people talk to you like that.  :th_yeah:

I am dramatic but if that happens to me I wouldn't care of what they would think or what they could say about me in first place. Then I would do what Ramen's friend told him to do. 


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Posted 28 January 2015 - 01:36 AM

I am dramatic but if that happens to me I wouldn't care of what they would think or what they could say about me in first place. Then I would do what Ramen's friend told him to do. 

Hmm, you sound remind me of my good friend. 

"I have worked for many bosses and let me tell you, never let somebody try to step over you, if you must talk back to that person than let it be"

But of course, what Ramen is doing is the best thing possible. 

 

Ramen I think you handled this situation very well


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Posted 04 February 2015 - 01:24 PM

Sorry for my late update. That incident became a large matter that even the company president held a meeting.

So what happened was, later that girl sent a message to everyone, pasting the conversation between me and her. In her message she wrote, "if you want to know why ramenanmitsu isn't participating please read the below."

That was a kitten move.

I sent that message to the HR department and then the executives held a meeting. In the end, the executives unanimously came to the decision that what I said was correct. The girl was made to move at the far end seat of the office. Nobody hated me for being honest. Maybe some were even grateful that I said something they were too afraid to say.

But I was still pissed at her attitude. If she's going to attack people just because they don't agree with her, she should just join the ISIL and bomb the hell out of other people. So I briefly planned to destroy her.

To be continued.
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Posted 04 February 2015 - 01:54 PM

1. I took a screenshot of the message she sent to everybody.

2. I reserved a meeting with a mental clinic. I was planning to act like a person in depression. Because if you are diagnosed by the doctor as having depression AND the reason is work, the government is strictly going to check the company. My sister, my uncle, my aunt from both sides have been diagnosed as depression. I thought acting as one shouldn't be so hard.

3. I planned to call my lawyer so I can sue her/the company for "putting me under depression and making it impossible for me to work" and gain cash.

Well everything was going fine and dandy until my surrogate father called me(he's not my real father. He's a successful businessman who treats me like I'm his real kid. In reality, he treats me better than his real son. He teaches me a lot about his business and make me help his company sometimes so I can learn about business. Anyways, I admire him).

So I told him that I planned to destroy this kitten. Then he got angry.

Him: So if you stoop down to their level are you going to be satisfied? I always thought you were the guy who never cared about the kitten people put you through and continuously aim higher. These people never mattered to you. What's wrong with you now?

Ignore the people who try put people down for having different opinions. That's not how a business works.

Me: *annoyed*

The next day I still thought that what my surrogate father said was too idealistic and that he didn't understand me. I worked feeling annoyed and unsatisfied. But then I got called by my boss and that changed my feelings completely.

He said that the project I worked on was very successful and that he was very glad with the results I made during work. I was very happy to hear that because during that time I consciously made an effort to make the quality of my work more higher so to step myself up. The boss realized!

And then at that moment I realized that's the only thing I aim for. To be more competent. All the other troubles seemed very insignificant, stupid and a waste of time. There are more important things. And for me, being competent and recognized is more important than being liked.

Later that day, the HR asked me if I had any requests towards that girl. I replied I had no requests and I don't care about that case anymore. The HR was surprised. But that's okay, that girl is only like a mosquito to me.

In the end, everything went very well for me at work. My concentration has heightened, the reports I made are praised, and people ask me out a lot to have dinner or lunch.

Edit: the only complaint I have right now is that I have to live in the hotel during weekends because there is too much work and that I literally cannot sleep even for an hour from Saturday to Sunday.

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Posted 04 February 2015 - 05:19 PM

*claps* 

I understand your feelings of revenge, but I agree with your surrogate father this time. Mostly because I think you did humilliate her and you got praised. Your plan was nice, tho, lol. You really are an interesting person.

Good luck, Ramen.

 

And, WHEN and IF you have time someday in the distant future, can you read this manga? http://mangafox.me/m...v01/c001/1.html I would like to to know what you think of it.


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Posted 06 February 2015 - 03:29 PM

Well, people do say....the world has changed and the ideal.principles would get you nowhere. They are so wrong when they say that. Being a better person gives a different aura to you so to speak and....ideality though it is a bit pain in the ass from the inside....is very helpful in the long run. It makes you stand out of the crowd. Congratulations on your success at work, Ramen :D I hope your graph soars up even higher in the coming future :D

P.S- Your father is a very very nice guy. If I were you, I'd listen to whatever he says even if what I think is the opposite of what he says.

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Posted 11 February 2015 - 12:20 PM

It's not like I want to have drama in my life. But one thing happens after the other.

My best friend for life has joined this religious cult group and unfriended me because "you're such a cold-hearted person. You're not worth talking to."

Which is really weird. He knew and understood me and why I act the way I do. Even if we have different opinions we debate about it and have fun. People do say I sound cold but he always defended me, saying that, "he's just terrible at expressing his feelings" or "he just has a poker face and it doesn't necessarily mean he's cold." And now he says this. I want to believe his religious cult group mentor told him to not be friends with me anymore and it wasn't from his own thoughts.

I'm just so clueless to these things it makes me want to throw up just thinking about it.

*claps* 
I understand your feelings of revenge, but I agree with your surrogate father this time. Mostly because I think you did humilliate her and you got praised. Your plan was nice, tho, lol. You really are an interesting person.
Good luck, Ramen.
 
And, WHEN and IF you have time someday in the distant future, can you read this manga? http://mangafox.me/m...v01/c001/1.html I would like to to know what you think of it.

 
I'm a bit surprised now that I think of it of how destructive I can be.

It seems like the manga is not available.....
 

Well, people do say....the world has changed and the ideal.principles would get you nowhere. They are so wrong when they say that. Being a better person gives a different aura to you so to speak and....ideality though it is a bit pain in the ass from the inside....is very helpful in the long run. It makes you stand out of the crowd. Congratulations on your success at work, Ramen :D I hope your graph soars up even higher in the coming future :D
P.S- Your father is a very very nice guy. If I were you, I'd listen to whatever he says even if what I think is the opposite of what he says.

Thanks. I really admire my surrogate father as well.
I'll try my best to give the best results for my company and my self.

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Posted 11 February 2015 - 01:01 PM

It's not like I want to have drama in my life. But one thing happens after the other.

My best friend for life has joined this religious cult group and unfriended me because "you're such a cold-hearted person. You're not worth talking to."

Which is really weird. He knew and understood me and why I act the way I do. Even if we have different opinions we debate about it and have fun. People do say I sound cold but he always defended me, saying that, "he's just terrible at expressing his feelings" or "he just has a poker face and it doesn't necessarily mean he's cold." And now he says this. I want to believe his religious cult group mentor told him to not be friends with me anymore and it wasn't from his own thoughts.

I'm just so clueless to these things it makes me want to throw up just thinking about it.

 
I'm a bit surprised now that I think of it of how destructive I can be.

It seems like the manga is not available.....
 Thanks. I really admire my surrogate father as well.
I'll try my best to give the best results for my company and my self.

The very best wishes to you for that! :D

And...if you get time....do reply to that message I sent you...about Borgia and Rome XD

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Posted 11 February 2015 - 01:03 PM

The very best wishes to you for that! :D
And...if you get time....do reply to that message I sent you...about Borgia and Rome XD

Sorry, I totally forgot. Btw, do you know the manga Cesare based on the Borgia family? That manga is very very good!

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Posted 11 February 2015 - 01:07 PM

Sorry, I totally forgot. Btw, do you know the manga Cesare based on the Borgia family? That manga is very very good!

Its okay :D

And no, I have absolutely no clue about that :/ I haven't got into any manga after Naruto :/ Its gonna take a while before I venture out into the world of manga again :/

Thanks for the recommendation though.

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Posted 11 February 2015 - 01:13 PM

Its okay :D
And no, I have absolutely no clue about that :/ I haven't got into any manga after Naruto :/ Its gonna take a while before I venture out into the world of manga again :/
Thanks for the recommendation though.

What a waste!! Naruto is one of the worst mangas. There are a lot of great mangas you can absorb yourself into. Although, I do understand your sentiment. It's hard to get in one story when you're betrayed by the last one.

What about books? Do you read any history related books?

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Posted 11 February 2015 - 03:45 PM

It's not like I want to have drama in my life. But one thing happens after the other.

My best friend for life has joined this religious cult group and unfriended me because "you're such a cold-hearted person. You're not worth talking to."

Which is really weird. He knew and understood me and why I act the way I do. Even if we have different opinions we debate about it and have fun. People do say I sound cold but he always defended me, saying that, "he's just terrible at expressing his feelings" or "he just has a poker face and it doesn't necessarily mean he's cold." And now he says this. I want to believe his religious cult group mentor told him to not be friends with me anymore and it wasn't from his own thoughts.

I'm just so clueless to these things it makes me want to throw up just thinking about it.

 
I'm a bit surprised now that I think of it of how destructive I can be.

It seems like the manga is not available.....

You friend did what? Ugh, religion... See. My mother is a christian and I was "one" until I was 13. I respect other's beliefs. If that works for them, if believing there is someone for you makes you strongers that's fine and I don't have to be a jerk and tell you "is wrong". Just because it doesn't work for me doesn't mean it couldn't be the best for other people. But...when things like this (or worse) happens I can't hold myself. Believing on god or gods doesn't need to make you  that stupid and ilogical. I have religious friends and I'm a kittening mess. 

I hope he realizes.

 

Uhh, it seems that you can't go to certain pages because you are from Japan. Well, the manga is Oyasumi Punpun. 


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Posted 11 February 2015 - 09:34 PM

Which is really weird. He knew and understood me and why I act the way I do. Even if we have different opinions we debate about it and have fun. People do say I sound cold but he always defended me, saying that, "he's just terrible at expressing his feelings" or "he just has a poker face and it doesn't necessarily mean he's cold." And now he says this. I want to believe his religious cult group mentor told him to not be friends with me anymore and it wasn't from his own thoughts.

Sounds like it, yeah. Not all religions are cults, but cults tend to have leaders that are very controlling and demand unquestioning agreement.

 

That does suck, in any case. :sad:


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