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#81 theorangehokage

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Posted 23 February 2011 - 08:27 PM

D: well, Gabby broke up with mee last nightt... And today i got 15 txts just sayin "What happened?! You guys were a cut couple!" .. Idk wht i did tht was wrong.. Im betting she'll txt me back but i dont care noww.. I like someone else.. I asked to be friends but she was crying.. Tried to calm her down but she cried even moree... I didnt know wht todo .. Never had tht type of break up.. Any advice ?

Please and thanks..

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#82 Greed-Sama

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Posted 23 February 2011 - 08:30 PM

QUOTE (theorangehokage @ Feb 23 2011, 02:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
D: well, Gabby broke up with mee last nightt... And today i got 15 txts just sayin "What happened?! You guys were a cut couple!" .. Idk wht i did tht was wrong.. Im betting she'll txt me back but i dont care noww.. I like someone else.. I asked to be friends but she was crying.. Tried to calm her down but she cried even moree... I didnt know wht todo .. Never had tht type of break up.. Any advice ?

Please and thanks..


So you were dating and then you liked someone else and she broke up with you because of that?

Is that correct?

There's really not a lot of information to give good advice.

Edited by TheOmegaMan, 23 February 2011 - 08:31 PM.

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#83 Fyuria'sLeo

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Posted 23 February 2011 - 08:57 PM

Im confused. sweatdrop.gif I thought she was mad at you? and EXPLAIN more please. eager.gif

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#84 theorangehokage

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Posted 23 February 2011 - 09:08 PM

mmkay.. lol..

SO, last night i was txting ppl, on here, and skype... she txts me saying tht she wants to break up.. i ask her why and she never responded... not even this morning.... then, this morning, i get 15 txts asking about what happened... and yeahh i was going out with her but i liked someone else at the time... but then i think my friend Matt showed her the txts saying" well, i love gabby but idkk bro... i think im having second doubts..." .... im 9/10 posiitive that she saw thiis..

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Posted 23 February 2011 - 09:16 PM

Wait, so you were dating another girl while trying to ask this one out?

Not really a lot of advice I can give you there.

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Posted 23 February 2011 - 09:22 PM

Matt sucks as a friend I suppose. Dont tell him ish anymore. And you don't seem to know who you really like. Probably shouldn't be dating her unless its something casual. MAKE UP YO MIND
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Posted 23 February 2011 - 09:24 PM

You're a hot mess of confusion.

So you went from liking this girl Gabby and wanting to ask her out:

QUOTE (theorangehokage @ Feb 18 2011, 08:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
There is this girl in my chemistry class and ... her name is Gabrielle (i call her Gabby,Gabster, " YO Gabba Gabba!" tongue.gif ) and well wub.gif ..... i sorta.. maybe... kinda.. likee/love.... her.. sweatdrop.gif .... But, the thing is.... i dont know how to ask her out....


To her 'hating you' and never wanting you to speak to her again:

QUOTE (theorangehokage @ Feb 19 2011, 11:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
OMG! ):< .. even worse:

Okay, so about 20mins ago i was txting ppl and one of them was her brother.. She was looking at all the txts.. I was asking him where she was...10mins (around 11:20PM EST) she txts me saying : "uhh. Its noneya buisness where i am so just stop! I hate you! Dont text me or my brother ever again! Byee -"

dude. I feel like crying because problem keeps worsening sad.gif shamefulcry0js.gif .. Any advice please and thanks


To her actually dating you (and when the hell did that happen), and now wanting to break-up with you because you like another girl huh.gif

QUOTE (theorangehokage @ Feb 23 2011, 03:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
D: well, Gabby broke up with mee last nightt... And today i got 15 txts just sayin "What happened?! You guys were a cut couple!" .. Idk wht i did tht was wrong.. Im betting she'll txt me back but i dont care noww.. I like someone else.. I asked to be friends but she was crying.. Tried to calm her down but she cried even moree... I didnt know wht todo .. Never had tht type of break up.. Any advice ?

Please and thanks..



As I said this is just a bunch of confusion, and your story isn't connecting or making much sense right now. You need to clarify better if you want proper advice.

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Posted 23 February 2011 - 09:28 PM

So confused, my heads going to explode. blowup.gif

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Posted 23 February 2011 - 09:39 PM

So there's Girl A (the now ex) and Girl B (other girl that you like). I agree with Kona that we need more info as far as timeline and your relationship with both girls while you were with Girl A. But since you're not dating either one right now, I guess my big question for you is which one you have the strongest feelings for. If Girl B is the one you really want to be with, then based on what I understand of the situation, friendship with Girl A will probably be tough to salvage. Relationships are never cut and dry and people's feelings change, but it really hurts to be on the losing end. So it's really not your fault if you don't have those feelings for her anymore.

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Posted 23 February 2011 - 10:02 PM

True it's not his fault, but if they were gone that quickly than you shouldn't have been dating her in the first place. Dating isn't a fad or the cool thing to do. You should date someone only if you know for certain you like that particular person. Indecisiveness is a relationship's kyrptonite
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Posted 23 February 2011 - 10:19 PM

QUOTE (TheOmegaMan @ Feb 23 2011, 05:02 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Dating isn't a fad or the cool thing to do.

Oh yes it is. Times have changed, kids are especially loose nowadays
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Posted 23 February 2011 - 10:29 PM

QUOTE (Mik3 @ Feb 23 2011, 04:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Oh yes it is. Times have changed, kids are especially loose nowadays


Exactly my point. It shouldn't be.
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Posted 23 February 2011 - 10:34 PM

^I agree. It's the reason I haven't really dated anyone yet. I'm- and you, orangehokage- still young, and we don't need to rush anything.

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Posted 23 February 2011 - 10:45 PM

mmkkaayy...

I think i REALLY need to explainn... there are 2 gabbys in my school ( both freshman) 1. Gabrielle D and 2. Gabrielle M

I dated Gabrielle M NOT Gabrielle D... and the problem with Gabrielle D is a standstill.. and as more ppl txt me about it.. the less hope i have..

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Posted 23 February 2011 - 10:50 PM

Ohhh. That makes a little more sense.

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Posted 23 February 2011 - 10:52 PM

Yeahh.. (: .. But the problem with Gabrielle 1 is still there and NOW i got this problem with Gabrielle 2 who is my ex..

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Posted 23 February 2011 - 10:55 PM

Yay no more confusion, i finally understand, But as someone said earlier who do u like more?

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Posted 23 February 2011 - 10:57 PM

My head is gonna explode soon. Even movies with plot twists aren't this confusing...

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Posted 23 February 2011 - 10:57 PM

WELL, i dont know why Gabby 2 broke up with mee... Gabby 1 is a friend... BUT im thinking i like this girll named Julianna.. but i think she likes me... because she responded hapily to me being single and,... she was the first to respond to this and, like, she was helping me out than most ppl that txted me..

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Posted 23 February 2011 - 11:00 PM

As i said before go with the one you like the most.

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