Hey , you are a nice member of this fandom and helped us a lot with translations .And I understand that you already came to terms with this crap . However , some of us are still trying to cope with this idiocy of an ending and this is the only place I can come to and be at peace from NH and SS BS . So , if it's not too much to ask , please change your SS signature , at least for a few more days . Or just don't post anymore , like you always intended to do in the first place . I am sure you have good intentions, but it really is not helping you trying to even justify this ending either . If you really do love the NS fandom as much as you claim , then please at least change that signature , it is just awful .
Is it better that way?
I understand where you're coming from Kaguya-hime, and I agree with your mindset: it's better to accept reality and move on. I'll accept the fact that this is the ending that Kishi has chosen and there's nothing anyone can do to change it. But what I won't accept is me trying to convince my better judgement that maybe this was a good ending. It was not a good ending. It was misogynistic and disgusting and I found it degrading towards women. When a person threatens your life and the lives of everyone you love and then try's to kill you on multiple occasions, and regards your entire human worth as useless, you really shouldn't end up marrying that person and starting a family with them. I understand that forgiveness is important, and it's okay to forgive but it's never okay to forget. So what Kishi did to Sakura is disgusting and I'll never accept that this was the right course of action for her. I only wanted the best for her and when I saw her genuinely being happy and smiling all the time when she was around Naruto, I logically thought that they should end up together. So even if Kishi portrays Sakura as "happy" with her new family within the manga, I know realistically she wouldn't be. But it's not only Sakura but all the females have been reduced to nothing but housewives. This is what people mean when they say that Kishi is sexist. I personally don't believe that he's sexist, but just very traditional in the sense of Japanese culture. But that isn't the way things are in Japan anymore. It's 2014 and he should evolve with the times.
I knew it would end with kunoichi becoming housewives, NS or not Sakura was bound to be a housewife. LOL