Here is something I just find funny now.. I've been rewatching Gurren Lagann and remember that one scene that I'm not gonna spoil.. You know with Simon remember how long it took him to get over that moment? Almost a while And in Naruto we have in almost similar situation with Neji's death only he got over it like that you know almost like it really didn't matter. Not to mention that Naruto and Neji didn't really have any big interactions after Part 1 aside from 614. So the impact kinda fell flat. With Simon you actually felt the moments, and what was it that finally snapped him out of it:
That's right Nia did, and it was done brilliantly because he was too busy trying to be somebody he wasn't, and her speech to Simon about being himself was what made him realize that. Not to mention that in less than 2 episodes (when she first appears and the following episode she deals with one of the generals) has more of a character arc and development then Hinata ever did throughout the entire series of Naruto. Plus as far as I can remember that's only the beginning of the amount of stuff Nia goes through as a character and her relationship with Simon. There's a lot more stuff they go through as the series goes on in comparison to what the canon pairings in Naruto ever dream of.
And that falls right in line with Kishimoto outright admitting that Neji's death was simply a "cupid" moment for NH and that the death itself was pretty much meaningless where it actually should have mattered.
Plus, we have Naruto and Sasuke mentoring each others' children instead of properly raising their own. That does not send a good message. Also, the "Scary Mom" Hinata is more SP lip service/filler only because she sure didn't go out of her way to reprimand her son after he tossed her cake on the floor and acted like a belligerent, unrepentant brat during that scene in the movie. And telling your twelve year old son to protect his father/her husband when that is supposed to be your role? What person does that?
Sorry, but I have a hard time accepting that Hinata could be a more assertive disciplinarian behind closed doors given what we know about her personality and that she has shown nothing in her scant appearances in Boruto to bolster that claim.
As for Naruto's duties as Hokage vs his duty as a husband and father, he would never be an opportunistic lazy ass that would ditch his duties when he had the first chance, but he also wouldn't neglect his family to the point he has in Boruto had he married Sakura. In Boruto, he doesn't make actual efforts in balancing out work and domestic activites, and doesn't really have an interest in doing so. Whereas Sakura's influence would have her helping Naruto keep himself balanced in his responsibilities, especially since she would be more active as a wife and mother compared to Hinata.
It feels more like SP is trying to swap Sakura and Hinata's actual character personalities and history bit by bit, hoping nobody will notice.
Saying Sakura is "prone to fainting" in Gaiden when everyone knows that's BS.
Giving Hinata the same type of past of being bullied for a body part in The Last when there is no logic to it.
Now making Hinata "scary"?