Your points:
1-Kishi makes people hate Sakura
2-Asking about Sasuke's whereabouts means that she doesn't give a crap about Naruro
Otaru's answer:
1-That's your interpretation
2-Naruto is standing next to her narrating everything. As such there's no need to ask where is Naruto, which makes your argument invalid.
So, how did she missed your point again?
Once again I have to repeat myself.
It makes colossal difference. Its like shes desperate to know Sasukes location, while not giving two kittens where Naruto is. I remind you: she didnt know if the two of them were together or parted.
If she asked how is Sasuke it would be alright, since it would be obvious that Naruto is OK if the clone didnt disappear.