I agree with Soupy about Ron.
Hermione dated Krum and such before, so I don't see why Ron shouldn't have been able to mess around with Lavender. I mean at least he got to see that a relationship like that wasn't what he wanted.
As for the links Ciardha posted, holy crap. This is the most intellectual thing that I've ever read regarding Harry Potter. XD
I do want to weigh in on a couple of things from them though.
Get ready for a wall of text. XD
About the International Social Research Article:
I respect everyone's ability to weigh in on any art however they like because that's what it's for. Whatever a piece means to you is what it means. Rowling wrote a pretty believable portrayal of a CURRENT fictional universe. Yes, there's marginalization for females in the book, but there is in real life, too. Hermione, Luna, Professor McGonagall, the Gryffindor Quidditch girls, Bellatrix, and others defy gender stereotypes in spite of marginalization.
Had JK Rowling not been a woman, I think the book would have unintentionally become even more marginalized. (I don't agree that McGonagall isn't wise. She is plenty wise in my opinion and shows a lot of foresight about Umbridge and the progression of events. She wouldn't be the Deputy Headmistress without being wise imho.)
For me, the books are a great story. Of course I wouldn't object to more BAMF women, but the series takes place within the last 20 years where, I'm sorry, but there is not rampant gender equality no matter how bad I'd like there to be.
Feminists can find faults in the representation of females all they want, but I find this article to be a bit offensive. They call crying or sobbing feminine and saying that it is bad that Hermione was associated with these adjectives. Is a girl NOT allowed to genuinely do those things? Everyone should be allowed to cry when they want, play sports when they want, strive to succeed in any field the want, etc.
As for the fact that the main character was male and that Dumbledore and Voldemort were males, yeah that's pretty dominated, but should we marginalize successful and powerful men because they aren't women? I think that there is enough room for there to be women in that category as well as enough room for men to be able to take up traditionally "female" positions. Just because there weren't main roles in this series doesn't mean that they can never be.
Of course I recognize that most of this feminist objection is happening because these are children's books. The little boys and girls who read this without knowing about the progression towards gender equality may feel obligated to fulfill traditional roles
when they don't want to.
In any case, if people want to argue about the book from this perspective, I will gladly argue back. I am glad that this topic came up for scrutiny, though.
It shows that we're getting somewhere with people caring about gender equality.
About the Deconstructing Harry Potter article:
I personally like the accessibility of Rowling's writing. Not every book has to be a
Jane Eyre,
House of Spirits, or
Vanity Fair. Back in the day, Jane Austen was decried as a "Pedestrian Author." Even Shakespeare can't dodge crit about some free verse stuff that's pretty vulgar. No one FORCED you to read the book. I bet in a century's time or more, this will be considered a classic.
As for Pairings, I'm kind of Asexual about Harry Potter. I don't like how either of the two main pairings came about. There could have been a lot more build up, but perhaps it was not included because Rowling felt that the adventure-liking fanbase would object. I don't know her motives, but it's her story. She can write it however she likes.
As far as Snape goes, what we've seen of James as a Bully was certainy shocking, but we have NO idea of many other things that the Marauder's or Snape had done. To join the Death Eaters, you have to at least agree with the surface philosophy that some people are inherently better than others and therefore deserve to treat 'lower' people however they want. James and Sirius were not right to bully, but I doubt Snape is Innocent.