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[NarutoUzumaki01]

But actually that's intresting opinions on both sides.

[Sedna]

Thanks Swagkura. Im getting a new bag of popcorn ready. Wish me luck.

[Swagkura]

Thanks Swagkura. Im getting a new bag of popcorn ready. Wish me luck.

Have fun
I'm sure you'll hate it

[luffyq1]

Thanks Swagkura. Im getting a new bag of popcorn ready. Wish me luck.

have your barf bucket with you too.

[RyohkiFan]

Thanks Swagkura. Im getting a new bag of popcorn ready. Wish me luck.

Be sure not to laugh too much...it's painful lol

[Tiller]

You seem to infer quite a bit about my life and my experiences. You also seem to think that throwing out big words and references gives your opinion greater weight.

I'm sorry that I don't believe there's only one person in the world with whom I can be happy. The 1950s called. They want their wold view back.

 

My idea comes from life experience, first hand account, second hand accounts, and third hand accounts. Just because you've never experienced true love, or seen two people who have it doesn't mean it doesn't exist anymore then pretending that a million dollars doesn't exist because you haven't held it in your hand.

 

But go on and live with your stimulus and response. Reduce your argument to ad hominem attacks.

[NarutoUzumaki01]

 

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2. Learn How to Recognize Your Soul Mate

Ready for some clichés about marriage? Here they come. Because they're true.

Marry someone with similar tastes and preferences. Which tastes and preferences? The ones that will affect life almost every day.

 

It is OK if you like the ballet and your spouse doesn't. Reasonable people can accommodate each other on such differences. But if you dislike each other's friends, or don't get each other's senses of humor or—especially—if you have different ethical impulses, break it off and find someone else.

 

Personal habits that you find objectionable are probably deal-breakers. Jacques Barzun identified the top three as punctuality, orderliness and thriftiness. It doesn't make any difference which point of the spectrum you're on, he observed: "Some couples are very happy living always in debt, always being late, and finding leftover pizza under a sofa cushion." You just have to be at the same point on the spectrum. Intractable differences will become, over time, a fingernail dragged across the blackboard of a marriage.

 

What you see is what you're going to get. If something about your prospective spouse bothers you but you think that you can change your beloved after you're married, you're wrong. Be prepared to live with whatever bothers you—or forget it. Your spouse will undoubtedly change during a long marriage but not in ways you can predict or control.

 

It is absolutely crucial that you really, really like your spouse. You hear it all the time from people who are in great marriages: "I'm married to my best friend." They are being literal. A good working definition of "soul mate" is "your closest friend, to whom you are also sexually attracted."

 

Here are two things to worry about as you look for that person: Do you sometimes pick at each other's sore spots? You like the same things, have fun together, the sex is great, but one of you is controlling, or nags the other, or won't let a difference of opinion go or knowingly says things that will hurt you. Break it off.

 

Another cause for worry is the grand passion. You know a relationship is a grand passion if you find yourself behaving like an adolescent long after adolescence has passed—you are obsessed and a more than a little crazy. Not to worry. Everyone should experience at least one grand passion. Just don't act on it while the storm is raging.

 

A good marriage is the best thing that can ever happen to you. Above all else, realize that this cliché is true. The downside risks of marrying—and they are real—are nothing compared with what you will gain from a good one.

 

Quoted from the workd of Charles Murray. I think he gets a lot of things right, which further explains my problems with SS, NH, and why NS was the only healthy couple to be shown. Kishimoto not understanding that just proves further his own stupidity.

That's really one complicated opinion, and impossible for most people.

[Narufan85]

 

My idea comes from life experience, first hand account, second hand accounts, and third hand accounts. Just because you've never experienced true love, or seen two people who have it doesn't mean it doesn't exist anymore then pretending that a million dollars doesn't exist because you haven't held it in your hand.

 

But go on and live with your stimulus and response. Reduce your argument to ad hominem attacks.

 

Once again, you infer quite a bit about my life. It's condescending and wrong and makes you look foolish. And you seem incapable of comprehending my point. You have no idea whether or not I'm married or if I'm in love. Just because I don't believe in some notion of "true love" doesn't mean I don't know what love is; or that I believe it exists.

 

I actually think your "recognize your soul mate" post supports my position perfectly. There are lots of people with whom I am compatible and could imagine falling in love with. That's why I think the idea of soul mates or true love is silly. It's a corrupting social view that makes us think there's only one person out there for us; or one way to live and love. 

 

Life isn't a Disney film.

Edited by Narufan85, 27 January 2015 - 11:36 PM.

[milan kyuubi]

Guys calm down!

 

I am afraid of watching this movie. This might happen. And I don't have the money to buy a new one!

 

Edited by milan kyuubi, 27 January 2015 - 11:36 PM.

[tekopi]

Anything new to hype? 

 

To think that it is less than 24 hours countdown until The Last premiering here, and after I had planned for some recon on two of the cinemas, my dad barge on my perfectly plan schedule with a big news:

 

"My daughter, you will have big business consulting course that you need to attend starting tomorrow for three days"

 

What the     

[TouKen4Life3g]

Well love isn't as magical as media would put out.

BUT

When you're targetting teenagers, let alone family, you got to be realistic yet have a sense of purpose. Otherwise, what's considered bad if we let anything go?

[trang95]

But actually that's intresting opinions on both sides.

Same here. Whenever we get offtopic, the arguments can get huge, but they are also very interesting.

[milan kyuubi]

Anything new to hype? 

 

To think that it is less than 24 hours countdown until The Last premiering here, and after I had planned for some recon on two of the cinemas, my dad barge on my perfectly plan schedule with a big news:

 

"My daughter, you will have big business consulting course that you need to attend starting tomorrow for three days"

 

What the     

 

[NarutoUzumaki01]

Same here. Whenever we get offtopic, the arguments can get huge, but they are also very interesting.

Yeah, what I actually came up with this whole mess around, only one thing can't be changed - it's choice.

[TouKen4Life3g]

http://megumi0505.tu...ura-you-do-love

Won't that be a deal breaker...

[milan kyuubi]

Wish Kishi was a better man and have done this...

 

Edited by milan kyuubi, 27 January 2015 - 11:44 PM.

[NarutoUzumaki01]

http://megumi0505.tu...ura-you-do-love

Won't that be a deal breaker...

BOOOM, HEADSHOT!

And Sakura runs to Naruto.

lmao

[luffyq1]

Wish Kishi was a better man and have done this...

 

but he's not a man.

[tekopi]

 

 

At time like this, if only I had a shadow clone  .

[NarutoUzumaki01]

At time like this, if only I had a shadow clone  .

And only my second thought was right about "why".