Then I come to the point here. Now while I'm reading Uchu Kyodai (a beautiful manga about the space, I recommend it you) and I hit on a panel. (the story talk about two brothers who are pursuing the same dream). Notice whay says the main character in the first two panel...
http://www.mangapand...u-kyoudai/47/11
Funny, isn't?

And they say that embracing people in Japan is just a fraternal move. But I think that those panel just prove that japanese culture is different from us.
*Off topic* Excuse me young lady but i've been DIEING to ask you this question: Are you japanease???