Another thing is Hinata doesn't have a job. She's a stay-at-home mother, married to the village leader, and her family is very powerful within the village. It's not like she's working full time while raising these kids. And never mind that Boruto is still a spoiled brat, that Himawami attacked family members over her toy being ripped, how Hinata tries guilting Boruto into laying off Naruto, or confessing she doesn't want to bother Naruto with Boruto's feelings of abandonment. Oh, I forgot how they try and make Boruto afraid of his mother's anger.
Does this sound like a healthy family to you?
You forgot to mention that the daughter once beat her brother to the point he felt like he was going to die, and afterwards swore to do anything for her to make sure he never upsets her again.
Hinata was clearly raised very traditionally. So her role as a wife is once she is married is: take care of the house, handle guest needs, manage the staff, and raise the kids while the husband works either his job or clan politics. This was most likely the case even if she married Neji though she have much more work to do if that had happened instead. With Naruto he is not part of a big clan, has no servants, and meets people at work instead of bringing them home. So she has nothing to do other then keep the house clean and manage the kids; which she sucks at.
As for a job, what skills does she even have outside of being a ninja and going on missions? Sakura is at least a nurse with her training, Tenten knows enough about weapons to run a shop, and Ino has her families flower shop as well as being an interrogator. Hinata has knitting and flower pressing, those are great skills for a wife of a big important clan head that host get togethers between other clan head wives, not that good for a job unless she works all hours.
So wait, they actually admit that Naruto is never around and is a bad father now? Why can't they make up their mind?
Us: "Naruto is a bad father because he treats his son like kitten and is never around."
Them: "Well, Naruto is always around. Boruto is just being a brat. Just because it doesn't happen on screen does not mean he is never around."
Us: "Hinata is not strong. She is pathetic."
Them: "Hinata is strong. She raised two kids by herself."
Us: "So, you admit that Naruto wasn't around and is a bad father?"
Them: "No...that's....you're just a salty pairing fan."
Us: "Sasuke is a bad father. He is never around when he should be."
Them: "Well, can you blame him? Naruto is always putting him on missions."
Naruto to Sasuke: "Would it kill you to be home every once and a while?"
Them: "That's a translation error. Look at this fan-made family picture of SasuSaku and Sarada. See? He is home."
These pro-enders can't make up their minds. They just say whatever they want to make their pairings look good. These fans only care about pairings.
This is a case of the fans wanting something that's just not in the story or in the narrative.
Well, since the Last Jedi only came out a few weeks ago, I don't consider it using it as an example of beating a dead horse, yet. So let bring up Poe "the guy that shouldn't be alive anyways" Dameron, and Vice Admiral "Gender Studies" Holdo. When you look at the story from an objective especially by military standards Poe was completely in the right throughout the entire movie and almost all of the problems were ultimately Vice Admiral Gender Studies' fault. But that's not what the movie wants to you to feel or think. The movie wants the viewers to believe Poe was in the wrong for the entire movie, and committed graves sins for not putting his absolute faith in Leia and Holdo; two wise almost saintly women. Which is why their is such a divide in the viewership. Do you follow the movie you watched, or do you believe the narrative (I'm probably using this word incorrectly) they are trying to sell you.
In Boruto SP, Ikemoto, and the SS/nH fans want to believe that; "the marriages of SS & nH are perfect, and they have produces the perfect children; Salad & Bolt." Problem is they left Kishimoto to set up the story, background, characters, and narrative of Boruto (which he likely hates) and he instead made the core of Boruto; "nH & SS are miserable dysfunctional marriages, and Bolt & Salad are just children that are products of those dysfunctional situations." Since that is the core of Boruto, no matter what or how they change the story. It is always going to be off in some form, flawed in it excuses as well as the execution and generally just wrong no matter what they do.
Edited by Bail o' Lies, 10 January 2018 - 10:20 PM.