There are no problems for holding hands in public. I don't really think it's a sexually repressed culture. But the thing is, there are proportion of losers who can never get a girlfriend in real life. These ones are the ones that buy those anime pillow of hentai stuff. They're too afraid of real life girls so they go to anime girls, especially since they don't defy them.
My friend is also an INTP. I'm sure you can get along with him. I think I'm a bit like him too. Although, slightly more calmer.
Well,one of them said that her boyfriend feelt kind of awkward doing it, but when they were married that disappeared. And that he doesn't do that in front of his parents, at least when she starts it.
Also I've heard they judge you by how you cook miso soup? One of these girls was afraid of it, but she say they were very tolerant, receptive.
Anyway, after reading all of that I got scared Because I'm very free(?) It wasn't even about me, but I always imagine myself in every possible situation/role.
They said that japanese man that are in a relationship with a foregein girl are more open minded. Mostly because they have had contact with western cultures or read a lot about it. But relationships like that are a pice of work
I've read about woman with a relationship with foregein men, but that's other story. I was talking about this because I feelt like the culture has something to do with so many kind of perverts. I'm not generalizing, tho. But what do I know? You are from there, I won't fight you on this (?)
Seriously? It sounds like one, hahaha. I was thinking about it when I read that. Funny thing-- and I don't know if I told you that?-- is that INTPs are "known" for being a "f**cked up" version of INTJs. By this time you should know that INTJs are generally more calm than INTPs. INTPs mostly can't get their kitten together (well, that also depends of how well you can manage yourself, it applies to every personality type, but INTPs are very problematic).
I have a lot to say about INTPs and INTJs. They are sooooo alike but I don't know...I've realized that lately I got more INTJs friends and...at first is wondeful, I mean I can talk with them for HOURS making theories, healthy debating--which it seems very impossible to me, because irl almost everyone takes my words in a bad sense-- and laughing at the weird things we do/some obssesive compulsions that we have. But that's all If I get closer to them it could be a disaster. I feel like I can't bond with them
Edited by theunburnt, 10 November 2014 - 10:38 PM.