Like I said, why is Sakura's obsession in part 1 about Sasuke a "bad trait," but you have a hard time seeing Hinata's obsession as a "bad trait?" I know why and it is a common problem among many situations.
The obsession can be used as a weakness such as when Kakashi manipulated Sakura with his injured Sasuke disguise. It prevents people from thinking tactically in a situation that requires it. Again, Hinata's confession: She didn't help at all and in fact made the situation worse. Without Minato's safety protocols, not only would Naruto die, but so would everyone else in the village...all because she wanted to confess her love. That's why it is a bad trait...especially for Hinata who has pushed her love above everything else.
"I think the problem is that you guys are looking at it from your perspective not from Kishi's perspective"
I could say the same thing when people pick on Sakura despite Kishi making her a much stronger person. How many times do people push Sakura's obsession with Sasuke to the front of the row when Sakura has not been obsessive at all since part 1? How many times do people call Sakura a liar when Kishi has said on several occasions she wasn't? How many times has Sakura looked at in ways all because people want Hinata to be a better girl?
I am Naruto fan first. I am reading this manga as such. I am a NS fan, but first and for most I am a Naruto fan. I am a manga fan. I have seen what fandoms can do to a manga and have destroyed some of the best manga ever simply because they "demand" a certain outcome.
If I go by what Kishi has written so far...NS is canon. He has developed this pairing since part 1 and supported it throughout the entire manga. Hinata barely gets any moments at all and are so few and far between that she fades as quickly as she shows up. This is the main argument NS have. We don't like the pairing because it "looks cute." We like the pairing because we saw these characters grow up together on screen since the beginning.
If Kishi's intention this entire time was NH, then he did a horrible job at it. If his intention is NS, then you can see how this is the most logical giving the writing elements he has done. Some even consistent with other canon pairings in other manga. As a whole, this manga supports NS.
I don't remember well but I tought Itachi was telling Naruto that he needs to accept other people's help, nothing to do with his obsession, he was even happy that Sasuke has a friend like him. Correct me if I'm wrong.
Still Naruto's quest to save Sasuke is supposed to be seen as a great thing, the whole point of this flashback or at least in my opinion is to show Naruto will succeed where Hashirama failed and therefore break the cycle of hatred.
"That's why it is a bad trait...especially for Hinata who has pushed her love above everything else." sure it may be bad if you look at it realistically but in Hinata's case she's just a side character whose main trait is her love for Naruto, it's Kishi fault for making it her only focus but I don't think that's the impression he wanted to give. You take Naruto and Obito (Hashirama's case is looking more and more similar to Naruto as the flashback goes on) as examples and both of them altough having infinitely more weight in the plot, more panel times still displays obsession towards an other person, all of this boils down to Kishi's weird way of showing bonds even if it doesn't always make sense.
I already covered the part of Hinata's confession, it was a selfish act because the point wasn't to save Naruto but to confess because she tought she was going to die along with everyone else, now it doesn't make Hinata selfish even the most selfless person can sometimes be selfish.
I agree about the Sakura part but I don't want to be at the same level as these Sakura haters whose only agenda is to get her out the way so NH can happen with bias like "Sakura only cares about Sasuke not Naruto" "Sakura will never love Naruto she only loves Sasuke""Sakura's love for Sasuke is eternal and written in the stars"... all of this will bite them in the ass in the appropriate time and they will be responsible for this by twisting the manga and fueling their own denial but that's not the discussion at hand. If this is a response to my post earlier all I wanted to give is a possible reason for why people despise Sakura and elevate Hinata as some kind of godess who can do no wrong. Sakura has come a long way from her part 1 self, she's not the same obsessed fangirl altough some people don't see it that's their problem.
"I am Naruto fan first. I am reading this manga as such. I am a NS fan, but first and for most I am a Naruto fan. I am a manga fan. I have seen what fandoms can do to a manga and have destroyed some of the best manga ever simply because they "demand" a certain outcome."
I agree but I get the impression we are drifting away from the subject at hand, the problem here is that we the NS fandom are also part of this fandom and therefore part of the problem, there are bad apples in every fandom, we can only hope Kishi will do what he wants to do without any interference from fans.
Again I don't see what NS or NH has to do with this, there are a lot of people who likes Hinata but hates NH. I don't think NH is the endgame at all I still think NS is the end pairing but that's not the point. Still Kishi will need to redeem NS, the confession and then Naruto and Sakura acting as if nothing happened, the whole Kage summit fiasco the forced (there's no other words to describe this nonsense) Sakura's love for Sasuke is still bad writing in my opinion but I will judge the series as a whole when the manga will end because as of now NS has lost a lot of its appeal from my personal perspective. As for NH it's completely illogical, goes against the manga's theme against Naruto's character and on and on and on but if and that's a big if it becomes canon then it will show Kishi cares more about money than his own work.
Sorry for the errors, I'm not the best in english and sorry if I misunderstood what you wanted to say.