Actually,
Poision, Sakura being confused over what she feels for Naruto (which is canon fact btw, it was confirmed by Kishi) helps us very much. And I don't think it's much of a surprise at all, it actually makes a lot of sense.
It's no question that Sakura's relationship with both Naruto and Sasuke are vastly different from each other. They were created and developed in different ways. When she claimed to fall in love with Sasuke, she was a 13-year old girl who was very naive and impressionable. Sakura always had feelings for him, he's always what she associates with love, and it's what she was convinced was the most powerful love she could ever feel. Sakura never thought she would love anyone else, just Sasuke. Naturally, Sasuke= Romantic love. It's what she's so accustomed to doing, she doesn't really see anything else consciously.
Her relationship with Sasuke was bulid by angst, repression of her personality, constant worry over his dark side, and of course Team 7 bond. That's the only type of love she's ever known, can you really blame her for this current confusion?
With Naruto, it's 10 kinds of different. She originally disliked him and then slowly grows to be close friends with him by the end of Part 1. Part 2 kickstarted everything for her. Sakura sees his struggles and how much he actually went through that she was ignorant about, how hard he tries to help Sasuke and how he tries to handle everything on his own, all of this causes her to feel a strong emotional attachment to him. It developed quickly, so quickly I'm sure it's what confuses her so much. But the thing about Sakura is that she doesn't think nor probably likes to think about what she feels for Naruto now, she just does what her heart tells her to do. Protect Naruto and there for him in every way possible. This is how her true feelings for him are IMO shown.
You're half right. The reason why Sakura can't understand if she loves Naruto or not is because what she feels for him is different than what she feels for Sasuke. It's creation was different, it's concept is different. Why I'm not worried about this? Because it's almost like she's questioning what true love is. She loves Sasuke and that's what she always thought true love is, but then unsuspectingly, Naruto begins to dull that idea. He's always been by her side and understood more than anyone else. But that's not what truly confuses her, what confuses her is the feelings he creates in her. Sakura's grown so close to him in such a short amount of time, it's already to the point where she would rather give up on Sasuke so Naruto's safety could be preserved. She wants him alive more than she wants Sasuke alive (the guy she's supposed to love). Already, she seems to subconsciously chosen Naruto over Sasuke. She just needs to realize it.
Her relationship with Naruto is build off of happiness, empathy, mutual support, Team 7 bond, and selfless behavior. Mostly very different for what she went through with Sasuke. So if it's so different and brought on by different things, when all she's ever known is what loving Sasuke does to her, then how would she easily realize she loves Naruto romantically too? Sure, Sakura wants the same thing: she wants Naruto to open up to her more so she can be there for him better and help him from himself. That's exactly what she wanted with Sasuke too. But her image of love for Sasuke in Part 1 conflicts with the possible love she may feel for Naruto. Like I said, she's questioning what love really is. That's why she's confused over Naruto as well.
IMO, her love for Naruto is so much stronger and truer than what she ever felt for Sasuke. That can support the "Confusion is +NS". If you think the first love is true love, yet then you're proven that the love you feel for someone else is actually true love. However, you believed you loved the first person more than you would ever love anyone and can't realize it immediately that's it's a lie because you're accustomed to the first example. The fact that she's been friends with Naruto for years and never used to feel like this for him is also confusing to her, he's no longer just a friend to her. It's sometimes hard to realize you've fallen for your best friend because before, you saw them as just that. A friend. Being in love with Sasuke before doesn't help either.
So, really, Sakura falling in love with Naruto yet not realizing it, is far from far-fetched, given the cirumstances.
Edited by xxRomanceGirlxx, 03 March 2013 - 03:43 AM.