I only disagree with you on one thing and that's Naruto being afraid of being with Sakura and ignoring her signals. In my opinion, I don't think he's afraid and, thus, ignores the signals. He just doesn't see them because
1. he's unconscious (like the scene on the bridge between Sakura and Yamato)
2. he's not around to notice the looks she sends/ simply doesn't notice them ( like the time wayyy back in part 1 after Sasuke reveals that Naruto fought tooth and nail for her against Gaara and she sent that smile to him)
3. Interprets them in the "wrong" way (Like the time she was worried about him during the rescue Gaara arc, and he basically brushed it off. This one's a bit hard to explain because it's not like he doesn't know that she cares. He just isn't aware of how much she cares *insert bridge scene here once again*).
And, as a result of all of this, you can't blame him for not believing her during her confession. The only thing he really knows for sure is how strongly she felt for Sasuke years ago, hence all those flashbacks he remembers before she hugs him.
I agree with this. Plus there was the fact that he was not rejecting her confession really, but the notion that Sasuke means nothing to her anymore. We have to see it From Naruto's pov.(because this can never be emphasized enough) WASN'T It strange to Naruto that Sakura was crying a few days ago if not hours ago about Sasuke, then all of a sudden coming up to him and saying the exact opposite of what he feels, especially after he still calls Sasuke "friend" even after hearing the news of Sasuke joining Akatsuki? He was weirded out by Sakura's change of attitude towards Sasuke, not himself (well actually maybe a little bit but i'll get to that later), because he always knew that She of all people understood how he felt about Sasuke and shared to those feelings of companionship with Sasuke generally, and also that they both had separate personal feelings for him too; as a brother and a love interest. If he was suspicious at all of her confession it is because there was no reason really for her to tell him that out of the blue since she would just saying that for no reason, unless she had something else to tell him as well. Remember, they were not in a position or time where confessing feelings or denouncing them would be a natural thing, and certainly Kiba, Sai, and Lee were assuming she was going to tell him about the decision to stop Sasuke.
There are those that say that she was manipulating Naruto, even some fellow NS fans although they say it was for Naruto's Benefit. I however say it is not manipulation, because I see the part about her not caring about Sasuke anymore as a subtle "You don't have to concern yourself so much about my happiness" because she felt so guilty about relying so much on him without even considering his own feelings, which was no different from using him even if it was unintentional. And the part with her confession is responding to his feelings and letting him know she feels the same way, but Naruto does not know that because he is not aware that Sai told her about his love for her. Now I'm not saying that this erases her love for Sasuke, because Sai stated she loves Sasuke still which is why she also wants to release him from the pain he has in himself and is also inflicting on others.
However Sai under no circumstances ever said Sakura's feelings for Naruto are false but rather that she is not there merely for the sake of confessing to him and telling him to forget about Sasuke like Naruto was assuming. Rather it could be said the timing was not right to tell him since the main issue was about Sasuke, which brings up the point about why she would say she feels nothing for him. If Sakura's confession seemed false, it was because it was executed at the wrong time and for the wrong reasons. If it was at a more less tense time like say for instance, she told him after the confrontation with Sasuke, it would be more believable. I 'd imagine it could go like this,
After the confrontation with Sasuke
Sakura: Naruto there's something that I want to tell you......
Naruto: What is it Sakura-chan?
Sakura: I....... Love you............
Naruto: Huh? But..... I thought you love Sasuke?
Sakura: I can't say that I don't, but....... well....... Sai told me that you love me, and that your promise was because of your feelings.
Naruto: Sai did!? Ugghh... That meddling...
Sakura: It's okay..... Because that made me realize that it was always you who always tried to assure me and, and was there for me when I was upset....... I also realized that when you made the promise that you were the one who always knew how I felt, and always saved me.......
Naruto: Sakura-chan...............
Sakura: And I also realized that I never knew how much you suffered, how awful it was for you when you were young to be scorned by everyone. But you never gave up, and kept trying to save everyone even though they did not acknowledge you, That made me realize how strong you were, and kind...... even for someone like me who didn't realize how you felt, so that's why, I want you to know my feelings too..... Sasuke still is dear to me, no matter what, But I want you to know that I love you, Naruto........
See? The mood of things can affect how a conversation can go. It may not be convincing, what I wrote, but you see there was no pressure about Sasuke, no anxiety, because they confronted each other. So with the tension gone it is easier to be more honest. If there is one thing I know, it is that lying and miss-communication comes from pressure of the situation a lot of the time.
Edited by Phantom_999, 30 October 2013 - 03:01 AM.