Oh girls, where do I start? I guess with the fact that he decided that he was 'in love' with this 'other' girl even though he was dating me. And I was like...um...wtf? He said that she gushed to him that *she* loved *him* and he 'suddenly' realized that he 'loved her' as well. Even though this girl lives in INDIA and can barely string a full sentence of properly worded English together. He claims he's known her for a year, and once she told him she loved him he just *suddenly* realized he 'loved' her too.
My wtf meter shot clear off into the stratosphere.
My conclusion for his effed up behaviour? Some guys go absolutely brain-mental when they are told those infamous 'three words'. Some people are more in love with the *idea* of being in love than actually *being* in love. So, more than likely because I hadn't proclaimed my undying love for him, he jumped at the first chick who did...even when she lives halfway across the world, and can barely speak English.
A*shole jerk >.>
I'm sorry this had to happen to you Sakura, but it did for a reason, that reason being you deserve someone so much better. You're so right that ppl are in love with the idea of love more than actually being in love. I love you is just a phase anyone can say it, I doubt someone saying it from the other side of the world meant it if she hasn't even met him. I'm not saying it's impossible, but come on the fact that he fell head over heels while he was with you is absurd. Look I can do it to, Sakura, I love you, now let us run off together since I've shown you my undying love and devotion to you...I can believe he thought you'd buy that. It's a good thing your wtf meter was in check cause everything he told you was a bunch of BS. Perhaps he saw this girl as his scapegoat, like maybe he had other reasons to leave you, but he didnt want to man up to it. Either way you're free to find someone who's going to tell you they love you and actually mean it.