Excellent post I found on onemanga.com:
http://forum.onemang...mp;postcount=27QUOTE
I have something I'd like to ask of the NaruSaku fans on here who have been using the Sakura/Kushina parallels as well as bring up the Yamato talk and Sai flashback moments from the manga.
Why do you need parallels and third part support to validate your beliefs in NaruSaku being the cannon pairing in the end? Do you have so little faith in the pairing that it can't stand on it's own two legs; that NaruSaku needs all this outside intervention to make them valid.
The following is my personal view on what I feel you guys may be communicating when you bring up the parallels and third party elements, even if only on a subconcious level. Seeing as I am neither any of you or a NaruSaku supporter, I can't be absolutely sure, but this is how I feel when I read your post.
In reguards to the Yamato talk; I feel what you guys are implying that Sakura isn't capable of realizing her own feelings about Naruto on her own. She needs the words of a third party in the form of Yamato to tell her what she's feeling, even though he has only known her for about 48 hours or so. And seeing as he never finished what he was going to say, the assumtion that he was going to say "you love him" as an absolute is just plain foolishness. Is Sakura really so out of touch with her own thoughts and feelings that she needs an outsider she barely knows to tell her the truth about herself?
Next is the Sai talk. Again, from the way you guys go on about it feels like your implying Sakura needs a third party to tell what should have been obvious for a long time now; that being Naruto's feelings for her. Given how she was acting when Sai told her, it really seems like (to me at least) Sakura had never really realized that Naruto cared about her in that way. Even after all his date request and the stuff he would go through for her, she still seemingly needed a third party to tell her what she should have known for all along.
And for the love of God, please stop comparing Sakura with Kushina. Those two are honestly not that much alike. Their are only two characters in the series like Kushina and those two are Kushina herself and Naruto.
Again, do you NaruSaku fans who use Yamato, Sai, and Kushina based parallels have so little faith in the pairing's ability to stand on it's own two feet; you need those third parties and parallels to validate your beliefs? If you really do, then you really have no faith in NaruSaku at all. Find and use things that only involves the two of them alone with no outside elements at all.
Truth be told, that is one of the strengths of NaruHina. We don't need to uses outside forces to validate NaruHina because NaruHina has enough backing behind it to support itself. And though it is true there are NaruHina fans who use third parties and parallels too, the most faithful of the NaruHina fans will only use those to counter things said by NaruSaku fans.
And it's because NaruHina can and does stand on its own two feet that makes it the best and most likely pairing to happen by the end.
Yeah, I think I'm pretty much done arguing there for a while . . .