Kushina said "Find a girl like me." Not "Find a girl like your father". The parallel is pointless and contrived.
SAKURA thought of Naruto poorly just like KUSHINA thought of Minato poorly. SAKURA was bullied for her forehead and KUSHINA was bullied for her hair. Naruto complimented Sakura on the trait she disliked most (disguised as Sasuke) and Minato complimented Kushina on the trait she disliked most. NaruSaku and MinaKushi are intentionally written to be alike and Kishimoto admitted he did that on purpose for the purpose of a "red herring". All the purposely written parallels between these two couples are just that, purposeful and meant to trick all of his readers as Kishimoto put it.
Any similarities Hinata has with Minato are not only non-existant, but pointless from the very start. As I see it, certain people are desperate to tie the two together because the Kushina = Sakura is so completely undeniable unless you have a long stick shoved very far up your bottom. They can't compare Hinata to Kushina since they are nothing alike (But boy do some of them try with arguments such as... 'they both have long hair!'), so they desperately try to compare her to Minato.
They are in no way comparable. If so, anyone who ever thought poorly of Naruto at first can be called a Minato parallel. That includes all of Naruto's classmates, Sasuke, Gaara, the Sand Siblings, Ebisu, Konohamaru, and a host of other people who thought poorly of Naruto before changing their minds.