You know when Hashirama told the story of Uchiha to Sasuke, that bullshi* "Uchiha love is just too great that's why they starting to develop dark chakra in their brain resulting in a form of sharingan" ..... that is the moment i realize .... wow Kishi want force us to love them, they are actually a sweet bunch of people who just want some love and misunderstood/tand, that is the message .... is so disgusting. Hes really doing all he can to glorify Uchiha name ...
The idea of "Your love is too big for you to contain and turn into a hatred and negative feelings" is so sick, it's like hes telling us that when Sasuke attempt to murder Sakura and Naruto that's is because he love them too much it's turning into hatred.
I think you are on to something with the last line that you said as Kishi may have been thinking that, but what ever it is I don't care I know I would have done Naruto better and Sasuke would die as a bad guy and Naruto would grow up and see not all people will just change cause you talk to them.
Look at Walking dead with Negan, we all know what he did in the comics and what he will do in season 7, yet here is the thing people love Negan as he is a crazy moutherkitten and that is what so many like about him as he is so deadly, and I can't wait to see what he will do in season 7.
And this is why Walking dead is also better than Naruto how many people have Rick's group killed?