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This guy also told me there is an episode where Sakura encourages Hinata to confess to Naruto.
I've watched all the fillers. There was no such thing. The only person who came to mentioning romantic feelings between Hinata and Naruto was the princess in one of the filler arcs, who started "You really like him, don't you?" (or something like that)
Said princess later asked Naruto to stay with Her.

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and i ask it again do you think if sakura would spare second glance at naruto if sasuke was still in konoha?
YES, because she started to look towards Naruto Before Sasuke left. Even Sasuke noticed (rooftop scene, where Sasuke mentioned that Naruto was the one who saved Sakura, and Sakura end up just looking at Naruto and smiling). Even before Sasuke left, she had started warming up to him. Sasuke only accelerated events by making Sakura realize that Naruto understood her all along. But the foundations of trust, camaraderie and fondness were there before he left.
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and what have hinata done to make people hate her that bad? nothing if you ask me.
People also want Ino, Tenten and Karin dead. They haven't done anything bad either. Some people just don't like Hinata's shy personality, it is a matter of personal Preference (personally I don't care that much about this particular fault).
Sakura Consistently won the "most hated character" threads before part II started, and the hate was even high into part II, with some people calling her gain in power unrealistic, and others calling her a b*tch for "taking Hinata's place besides Naruto" (or not being "faithful" to someone who basically left her). Then when she started doing less, she got labeled "useless" all over again.
And that's After she's already proved herself. Hinata hasn't proved herself in part II yet.
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she knows the pain of lonelyness
No she doesn't. That's why she never even Thought of reaching out to Naruto: because she completely failed to see that he Did need someone to help him back up. She just assumed that he did so just fine on his own! As a result, team 7 did much more for Naruto just by sticking around him than Hinata has ever done in her years of looking at him.
And Damn they're using fanfics now! This goes to show how out of touch some of them are with the manga. XP