I don't know about that and to be fair, I am not about to dive into cultural differences on what is right and wrong, but what I think is wrong is how these two pairings are based on all the wrongs reasons.
It is sexist towards women because women only exist to be baby-makers and slaves to men, they think nothing else, BUT the men they are after and are seen as terrible women if they move on with their lives away from that love. Traditional or not, modern society has to change it. Otherwise, we cease to expand the human mind and ways that can better human life. We should be fighting against change...we should be embracing it to make life better.
However, this story is also sexist towards men and I will forever be offended as a man by this story. Apparently, our love for a girl is not important and we need to "grow up" from "childish things" (but apparently for women it is not childish.) Our feelings are ignored because we HAVE to be the girl who fell in love with us first regardless of how our feelings are. We are also seen as nothing more than brainless trophies who apparently only want to procreate with anyone willing to open their legs.I am so sick of everyone keep saying to me how "You didn't see how Sakura was in love with Sasuke," but in reverse they never saw how Naruto was in love with Sakura or how Sasuke didn't even love Sakura and by all arguments so far....still doesn't. There is no proof, even in Gaiden, that he is in love with Sakura. There is no one panel, no single moment, to prove that love he has for her. As far as I can tell, he is just using her to continue his clan. There is nothing else.
"Well naruto moved on"
Not according to the Last.....and even so why is it okay for Naruto to move on, but not Sakura to move on from her crush?
This double standard is ridiculous.
Bah...
Maybe the traditional 'japanese' thing doesn't mean anything.
But I wouldn't call 'sexism' too.
All of this is, most likely, just expression of 'sentimental laziness' of readers (worldwide), mangakas, editors and animator's studios staffs...
They want all giftwrapped for delivery.
They don't want fall in love with a girl (too much trouble).
They want the love of a girl that worships them, spoils them and doesn't give them too trouble...
What was the word... BETA males, maybe?
Edited by Niky, 30 June 2015 - 03:47 PM.