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[Sakura Blossoms]

mmmm.....yunmmy <3
hahahaha.
Guys, you just wish you were as hot as him xD
So, stop hating on him.

[Michi]

Hahahaha.
"Too Hot to Handle."
Those are the words of truth:hehehe:

[No WhereMan]

Well, at least it's not Twilight. And it's good to see you're feeling better as well, Sakura-sama.

Edited by No WhereMan, 27 July 2010 - 07:39 PM.

[BlackLightning]

The day I envy Jacob is the day the earth gonna rotate backward

[krisk]

I think I was misunderstood...

AH WELL if I had known you were gonna yoink it and pimp it out, I would've made the bag abit more presentable. SHEESH WOMAN THATS MY WORK YOU'RE FLAUNTING AROUND

[Sakura Blossoms]

I think I was misunderstood...

AH WELL if I had known you were gonna yoink it and pimp it out, I would've made the bag abit more presentable. SHEESH WOMAN THATS MY WORK YOU'RE FLAUNTING AROUND

Hehe, you can pimp out the pic more if you want, and I can flaunt the updated version XDD

[Dreamer]

Shauna, i haven't heard from you in a long time.

[krisk]

updated vrs!!!11



BONUS:




the second one i couldn't help. it's kind of hard to drink water like that I think. I mean you have to REALLY like water to even attempt that pose whilst consuming said liquid nourishment

YAY

[Sakura Blossoms]

Thanks krisky!

Shauna, i haven't heard from you in a long time.

Aww, sorry hon. I've just been super busy as of late, but I'm going to try to be on more often again

[Sakura Blossoms]

These last few months have been...a rollercoaster. I made a bunch of new friends online...only to have them one by one turn on me and betray my trust and friendship. I met two other people online who were so awesome we became best friends over the last year. But then one started dating and became cold and distant because the person they were dating didn't like me. So I was told to never contact that friend again because my messages would be erased. That utterly broke my heart. We were best friends and that's not a term I give lightly to people. I also dated someone I was completely in love with. Absolutely devoted to. Gave everything I am to this person. And the 6 months we spent together were heaven. Unfortunately it was an online long-distance relationship, and this past weekend my heart was absolutely torn to shreds when they broke up with me. So it's like wow...well gee...does *anyone* like me, because I can't seem to hold onto any friendships/relationships. Or maybe the bigger problem is that they have all been 'online'. But I've never been a person who distinguishes a difference between an online friend and a 'real-life' friend. A person is a person, and a friend is 'supposed' to be a friend no matter how, where, or what medium you meet them. Whether in real life or the internet.

I'm beginning to think that I'm all wrong about that now. I'm just so hurt and distrustful of *anyone* right now. Which sucks because I don't *want* to be. But how many times can I have my heart stomped on and run over multiple times, and keep putting it out there for people to crush.

It just sucks...I want to trust people and love again...but I think I'm slowly losing that ability to...

[Nee-sama]

I'm sorry to hear what you've been going through. The internet can do ya that way. But I do know two people who met online and are wildly in love and engaged to get married now, so it can happen! Be strong, have faith!

[Miss Soupy]

To be honest, I don't think online friendships can ever really equal a real life one. There is something different in the way we perceive someone online to who they really are in reality. You can get to know someone really well, but I feel like there is always something missing. Now if you actually met with an online friend in real life from time to time, I think it might work out better. But otherwise, it has always been my experience that online friends will, eventually, move on, no matter how close you were at one time. It's happened to me a lot too, it just seems like an unfortunate cycle. I've only come across a few online friends that have ended up staying in touch with me over the years. So it can happen, it just isn't very likely from what I've seen.

Long-distance romantic relationships, on the other hand, cannot stay intact if you don't actually visit the other person as much as you can. Period. You can't just stay in the online phase. And even more, it's not really for everybody. It takes a lot of patience and trust in the other person.

And you shouldn't give up on people! Really, you just have to go in with a thick skin sometimes. Of course you want to get close to people, make friends online, but you have to realize that things change over time. People move on, it happens to real-life friends and online friends alike.

[Sakura Blossoms]

I'm sorry to hear what you've been going through. The internet can do ya that way. But I do know two people who met online and are wildly in love and engaged to get married now, so it can happen! Be strong, have faith!

Thanks, Nee-chan

As for the person you were dating...I know it's hard for you, but I actually can understand a bit. Long distance relationships are hard on a lot of people, and more often then not one partner or the other just can't stand not being close by their significant other and feel like they're not even together. I'm not sure how you two communicated, or if you even saw each other in person, but I guess he just couldn't take the circumstances of the relationship anymore. I'm not suggesting it's in anyway your fault, but I'm just saying a lot of people can't do a relationship that way.

No no, you're right. I've already been through one long-distance relationship before, and even though I did get to meet the person a couple times, it didn't work out. And I *swore* to myself I would never put myself in that position again. But it's really hard to tell your heart not to do something it's set on doing ^^;

I also kind of get what you're going through with people in general. It's been often hard for me to establish friends as well, or at least be able to work with them, but I have no idea what I'm doing WRONG. I try to be respectful, friendly, and when it comes to academic work, work with the team, but I've found that often after a few conversations it seems they want NOTHING to do with me.

I don't get it either! I try sooo hard to be people's friend and to help them out whenever they need it, but they never seem to want to do the same, and things always end badly. It sucks

So, don't give up on people; if you just find a few you can always count on, that's all you'll need.

I'm trying. I don't really have anyone to talk with 'in real life', so it's a bit hard to depend on a select few friends. But I'll keep trying ^^

To be honest, I don't think online friendships can ever really equal a real life one. There is something different in the way we perceive someone online to who they really are in reality. You can get to know someone really well, but I feel like there is always something missing. Now if you actually met with an online friend in real life from time to time, I think it might work out better. But otherwise, it has always been my experience that online friends will, eventually, move on, no matter how close you were at one time. It's happened to me a lot too, it just seems like an unfortunate cycle. I've only come across a few online friends that have ended up staying in touch with me over the years. So it can happen, it just isn't very likely from what I've seen.

*nods* I believe you are absolutely right. I don't think I would have agreed 2 years ago, but honestly the last couple of years have been hell when it comes to online relationships/friendships. But you're also right that sometimes if you're *really* lucky, you can find one or two 'online friends' who end up being *real* friends. I'm trying to re-connect with a couple of those people right now ^^

And you shouldn't give up on people! Really, you just have to go in with a thick skin sometimes. Of course you want to get close to people, make friends online, but you have to realize that things change over time. People move on, it happens to real-life friends and online friends alike.

*nods again* Thanks for the advice and support, Soupy. I'll take it to heart and do my best


Thanks you guys for talking with me about all of this! It's *definitely* helping me to deal with everything and feel better

[Sakura Blossoms]

Heading to Jamaica tomorrow for a week. Wish me a safe flight/trip?

And anyone want me to do another video like I did for my last trip~?

[ShippudenGirl]

Heading to Jamaica tomorrow for a week. Wish me a safe flight/trip?

And anyone want me to do another video like I did for my last trip~?

That's sweet! I wish you a very safe trip! ^^

[Onionhead Attacks]

Have a safe trip, Sakura!

[Sakura Blossoms]

Thanks guys! Heading to the airport soon

[No WhereMan]

Have a safe trip Sakura-Sama, enjoy your holidays. ^^ Enjoy the sand, sun, and the family. I wish I was going, because right now outside is burr where I live.