Basically this: Naruto will not allow himself to believe Sakura loves him quite yet, but he's not dense enough to deny their friendship is not just a normal friendship anymore. He knows "something weird" happened between them, but he won't really let himself define it yet. So saying Sakura was "more or less his girlfriend" is more like Naruto saying "I don't really think she loves me, but part of me is confused."
Except that this would only apply to characters who are oblivious to love (100% completely). Naruto is the only exception that he knows he loves Sakura, but if you were to apply this to him, you would be hard-pressed to make it work. Why?? in order for the character to have doubts and not have an understanding of his feelings, you have to actually establish his naivety when it comes to things like those. We already know that he is aware of what love is, so what's the point in dragging things out??
If he is already that aware of what love truly is, then he should've acted up by now. I know about his insecurity, but at this point it's just dragging things out and gets boring. Not only that, it only serves to make him look even more of an idiot. He's supposed to instill the sense that you can do anything if you're gutsy enough. So, the fact that he doesn't have the balls to actually ask her about what their relationship really is, really breaks the aesop as a whole.
That's what I thought, but I'm trying to figure out why the other fans think like that.
The way I figure they must think Naruto is joking because he can't use Sakura's confession to seriously support his claim of Sakura being something like his girlfriend. And the reason he can't use the confession is because they believe Sakura completely lied about everything.
I suppose the counterargument would be that Naruto believes Sakura is somewhat honest with her love for him.
Does this mean Naruto accepts that Sakura does love him? That's the part that I wish to be sure of.
Like others said, I think he's saying that it's more like their relationship is "floating".
I see what your saying, and while it's problematic that Sakura seemed to have become an after-thought recently, I feel that the quality of her development with Chiyo, and the quality of her development with regards to Sasori's conversion/fall from grace was so high that it really doesn't matter that the quantity of Sakura development had been reduced. I do agree that Kishi has a consistency problem to a large degree (on the other hand, he's also very good at "ignoring" certain points for a long time, then bringing them up again much later when relevant), and that he's seemingly wonderful at forgetting characters, but having recently re-read/skimmed through much of the manga, I've noticed that Sakura is more involved even in the War than it seemed when reading the manga on a chapter-by-chapter basis.
I'll check those out eventually, I got into Naruto because years and years ago on our way to HS my carpool and I were stuck in major traffic. He had a couple of volumes of Naruto on him, and I thought it was interesting. I'm actually interested in reading Kurohime as well. Ecchi doesn't bother me, Jacqueline Carey's first Terre d'Ange trilogy is my favorite fictional series and as an Undergrad
I used to teach undergraduate and graduate students sex ed it's really a shame how little knowledge some graduate students have...
There's no question about her involvement in the war, but however, it's not counterbalanced with quality, either. All we really have is quantity right now.
Actually, I'm also guilty for my lack of knowledge on sex ed too (and I'm a 4th year Uni student!!) .
All I get is that you bang up a girl, your juices gets into her and mixes with hers, and voila!! you've got a baby on the way!! and even then, I still don't get how the intricate details work.
I've actually been wanting to write a smutty lemon fic for a long time, but since I don't have enough knowledge on how "it" works, I would have a problem conveying it into written form.
Although reading porn/H-mangas does help a little..... (but not to the point where I'm confident I can write it.)
@Paptala: About the list that you took from another fandom... well, I can definitely say that it is all true. Not to mention that there is one manga masterpiece that adheres to that list to the letter.
Rurouni Kenshin
But the difference is that RK had a shorter run than Naruto. So, it's easy to dangle the looming question between the hero and heroine in front of the readers. It's really a matter of psychological perspective. For a longer-running series like Naruto, the question have to be constantly referenced and hinted at, otherwise, you ruin the the reader's anticipation. It's not surprising that NH fans seemed to believe that Naruto has gotten over Sakura because of the lack of consistency.