Temari thought Naruto is annoying and TenTen thought he was a jerk, and both said that they were "cute/hot" and it's not mistreatment, but Hinata was the only girl who saw through Naruto's cliche' attitude.
I agree pen...I don't recall either of these either. Additionally, I don't remember her seeing through his bravado at all. The difference with Hinata compared with others was that she didn't hate him. It wasn't seeing through him as much as it was that she didn't hate or wasn't annoyed by what she did see. I can't think of a moment when she saw him deeper than others did. To be honest, I don't think she ever possesses a deeper knowledge or understanding of him than the rest of the rookie nine/gai's team. In fact that's one of the issues, is that there isn't any evidence she does know him that well, at least not the way Sasuke and Sakura do.
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Also, in SAKURA'S case it seems like a bro/sis relationship:
Naruto does something annoying, Sakura gets mad easily, and feels like she wants to beat him up, and she nags him of what not to do, sounds like a sister to me.
I don't see this as being any more or less distinctive of a sister than a wife or girlfriend. As much as I hate to make cross-anime comparisons, in the Shounen genre there are plenty of girls that fit a similar mold as Sakura (the short temper, hitting him and so on) that are the love interest. While this doesn't prove she's in love with him or that's she a defacto love interest, it does indicate that such behavior isn't something indicative of a brother-sister relationship. She a type of person who has been the love interest a number of times before so it's not like it would be unusual.
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Besides do you think it would be THAT easy for Sakura to forget about Sasuke and go for Naruto just like that, after all she's been through? Naruto may still love her, but Sakura's feelings for Sasuke is interfering for NaruSaku to be canon
The question then is this: Why is Naruto any more likely to change that Sakura after all he's been through with her? Why is it Naruto who must change? And Naruto's for Sakura will interfere from NaruHina being canon. This particular argument bugs me because it seems assumed that Sakura will never change in her feelings while Naruto's must; that somehow hers are more deeply rooted than his when the most dynamic character in the series, the one who has changed the most, is Sakura. Sakura has changed in many ways so her feelings changing isn't really that unexpected. And no, I don't think the change would be easy, but then again go after Naruto doesn't necessarily entail "forgetting" about Sasuke.
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Yes Hinata has issues, but Naruto's the reason why she's trying to change that, if NaruHina was canon, it will help her loose that low-confidence.
Not a given. As I discussed with Nick in another thread Lee probably fills this role better than anyone else. Of course, LeeHina has no chance, but NaruHina isn't exactly the perfect couple (no couple truly is) and while he may help her he could just as easy do more damage to her.
Because Naruto is the one she seeks to emulate, she compares herself to him. The potential problem is if she never reaches the point she thinks he's at, she risks always feeling inadequate, that she'll think she doesn't measure up and, thus, end up worse off than before. Naruto is not just a silent confidence, he can easily drown people out especially when they don;'t assert themselves. Naruto would never intentionally stomp all of over some one, but he could easily do so unintentionally, especially with someone who possess a personality as accommodating as Hinata's. Even if she possessed more confidence, I still think she'd still be very much the people pleaser and would do things she hated if it made others happy. As loud and stubborn as Naruto is, I see her having a tendency to let him has his way alot, even when he probably shouldn't.
Second, yeah, but isn't that lack of confidence preventing her from doing anything about it? It's sort of a catch-22. Hinata needs the confidence Naruto provides, but her having the courage to actually confront him to say anything, let alone as an equal (while Naruto sees her as one, I don't think she believes herself to be one), implies that she already possesses the confidence Naruto is supposed to give her. She doesn't have any of that hero worship with respect to Kiba, Shino, and Lee so it's much less of an issues.
Moreover, her being with Naruto before obtaining any real confidence also risks her borrowing from him rather than possessing it herself. Getting with Naruto before obtaining real confidence means she might use him as crutch rather than a source of real motivation. This is true of anyone even Lee, but I think it's even more so for Naruto because she uses him, specifically, to build her confidence. Hinata needs to be strong enough to truly stand on her own and I don't see Naruto being especially effective at giving that because of how she views him.
Finally, there is her family. Naruto has made it clear he doesn't give a crap about their traditions and hierarchy. In some ways, he's the clans worst nightmare. If he didn't like it , he'd stomp all over them without reservation. While I don't think Hinata likes all of them and she would be inclined to change some of them (especially the cursed seal bit, because I doubt she likes Neji having it and there is no way I think she could give it to Hanabi voluntarily) her family and their recognition, IMO, do matter to her. Whether she wants them or not Hinata is likely to have obligations as a Hyuuga, even if she were branch and she isn't the type to just say to hell with them and ignore them.
If she does become clan head, I think she would want some changes but I don't think she'd just run roughshod of them as Naruto likely would. I don't think she could. Her family does matter to her and just leaving and ignoring it all isn't something I think she can do. Might Naruto be accommodating to this an accept this as well of some of the obligations that would go with being attached to the clan head. Yeah, I think he would, but I think Hinata would hate herself for tying him down and putting obligations on him she knows he likely doesn't want any part of. She'd always feel guilty for that.
I'm not saying that their relationship can't work or that it has no chance benefiting her, but I don't think it's obvious it will and there are a lot of potential drawbacks, which means NaruHina being canon could just as easily make her worse off rather than better off. There are many potential problems and I think people like Lee and Neji can give her the same benefits (confidence) with out so many drawbacks.