The fans that you've encountered do not represent the majority of their fandoms, just as the few extremist fans of NaruSaku that they've dealt with do not represent our majority either. They may perceive the romantic aspects of the manga differently than we do, but that doesn't make them ignorant, or "blind", or whatever other insult you want to throw in there. All it boils down to is personal preference, and no one deserves to be whacked with a stick because they like something different than someone else.
This is true, but it's like what someone else said in a previous page (I'm too lazy to go and look it up right now)
When the manga, book or whatever you're reading is leaning in the direction of something and it's practically screaming in your face about how obvious something is, it's disrespectful to the writer or artist when fans like the rabid NH or SS fans change things around and come up with excuses like they did with 631.
"Oh, he was just joking. He didn't mean that you silly NS fans."
Where on his facial expression does it indicate that he's joking? Why would he lie to his dad who he never sees, and to himself for that fact?
"I HATE people who lie to themselves!"
Wouldn't Naruto be lying to himself if he was joking?
I just don't get where or why they come up with things like that. I'm pretty sure if I had never seen my dad before and he asked me a question...God knows I'm not going to lie to him! Especially when I know he's not going to be around much longer.
It's just disrespectful to the author when people come up with excuses or bend the story around for their own pleasure.