She did have a bond with Sasuke, and it had an effect on him. But in the end he rejected all his bonds. When she went after him she really believed she could sway him. I don't look down on her for chasing after him, it's brave and bittersweet. She knows she has nothing to offer but she's desperate to be on equal footing and have her acknowledge him. Desperation, as Tsunade would say, being the key ingredient. But to dismiss Sakura as an "Uchiha fangirl" or being in "fangirl mode" is to ignore her character motivation and simply turn her into a stereotype (not from anyone's posts, it's just the ever-present term).
It's interesting in this episode because Sakura approaches Naruto entirely differently. She has a contingency plan, indeed she may have planned all along that Naruto would reject her offer of love and return to the village. And she knows she's powerful enough to take fate into her own hands. It's just that when she finds the she has the opportunity to sever those bonds of her own accord that she can't do it. She's no Sasuke.
I have much higher hopes now for the anime scenes to come, her attack on Sasuke and Naruto's subsequent rescue, since this chapter was animated so beautifully.
She didn't have a bond with Sasuke like Naruto and herself had or Sasuke and Naruto. but doesn't mean didn't Sasuke cared about her and he was grateful she is a precious person, comrade etc. in his life. I don't look down on her even when she went after him but she was desperate and selfish. all the way up to that point all she did was go after sasuke and did nothing with her life. sauske just bad for her character he stuns her growth and her identity.
Woah. I'm a sane individual, and i like being where one person doesn't see me as an equal. It makes me work harder to gain their respect. So I don't think that's a valid argument.
As for the convincing herself she was in love with him, I agree with that sort of. But it wasn't a crush. It was either psuedo-love or nothing, and I certainly don't think it was the latter.