i like that naruto and sakura argued, it was one of the highlights of their relationship that i like. now with that being said, i think sakura's confession was one of the dumbest things i've read in this series. i'm not saying what she did was entirely stupid, because she made valid points that naruto should be more concerned about himself instead of sasuke. but sakura laid out all the reasons why she should not love sasuke anymore. she said it herself:
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1. he's a missing-nin
2. a criminal
3. she's not a child anymore
4. he keeps getting further and further away from her
5. sasuke's crimes keep growing and it's breaking her heart
6. he's unrecognizable
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now with all of that in mind, i have to ask myself why does kishi label this as love? it's clearly not love if she's pointing out the glaring flaws of her relationship with sasuke. i don't think sakura knows what love is and she never did. what sakura feels is infatuation, not love. that's why i believe that naruto is a good example to talk to her about this stuff. naruto has experience all types of love, so who better to tell her that she doesn't understand love.
I completely agree with you couldn't have said it better myself XD . I loved that part about the confession to bc it made the couple look realistic even more so bc the build was already there . The part that was ridiculous about this confession is that it was rushed and focused more so on Sasuke issue then her feelings about Naruto .
About the other part that's exactly why I was so much looking forward for Naruto's confession bc it was freaking "foreshadowed" , for Naruto to tell her why he loves her , how much he values/appreciate her , to tell her how strong and beautiful she is even with her flaws , to tell her that he loves the part that she hates the most about herself . Naruto's confession should have solved all those things and make Sakura realize what true love is all about bc she obviously had a misconception about it from the start as well as with some other things which she was gradually starting to learn by seeing Naruto's actions first hand bc Naruto was her inspiration since the beginning and was pushing her to better herself by watch him working hard and fighting for the people he loved . But making Naruto into a shallow piece of kitten by using and playing with person's feelings stripping him from all if his character traits in the end is not a mark of an hero but a freaking scumbag and its not better then any of the villains traits sign .
Now what Kikitten did in the end is ridiculous bc he completely retconed all of the points you just listed and from a literature point of view it makes no freaking sens to count that as love it only confirms the status of SS as an abusive piece of kitten and a BWS case , its disgusting . But I'm also pretty sure that SS wasn't planed and happened only bc of NH to get Sakura out bc he said he had no kittening clue how that kitten happened nor did he gave a kitten . But still to twist your story so much to destroy all of your plot points and break every writing rule just for the sake of popularity and gaining profit to sell yourself to rabid otaku shipping fans is not the mark of a writer , its an disgrace for every writer who the pen in hand for the sake of telling a story and conveying his message , what makes this of Kikitten is a freaking "Money Seeking Grabbing Whore" and should never be allowed to write ever again this men horrifies me and disgusts me to no end ugh !!!
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