My last contribution
Like you've stated, we've got to look at the series as a whole and what do we see? We have Naruto who is this amazing guy who practically worships the ground that Sakura walks on. He treats her like a princess. And you have this guy named Sasuke who treats her like she's less than garbage. Who does she loves at the end of the day? Sasuke. Do you realize how problematic that is? I've seen some of you guys using the argument of Sakura still being in love with Sasuke for the sake of suspense, or that it would be boring that Sakura already starts loving Naruto now. But you guys are missing the big picture here. It's like some of you guys don't even care that Sakura's character is being degraded by still loving this monster. It's the same way for the NH fandom. Some of them don't even care how incredibly obessive Hinata's character has become, as long as she gets with her man at the end it's all good. Do you see how wrong that is? The only way I will ever accept NS as canon is if Sakura looks back on the way Sasuke has treated her and the way she acts around him, and then come to a realization that she was never really in love with hm and that he is not the right guy for her. But based on the events we've seen it does not look like that's going to happen the way i want it to. Kishi is giving people reasons to hate Sakura's character for this, and can you blame them? Let me restate that i don't hate Sakura's character, but i understand if others do for this reason.
Oh yes I do get your point but you won't change anything about that, the problem is that in part 1 the plot was driven by the characters in part 2 it's the plot that dictates the character's actions and many times it comes as forced and nonsensical and that's also why part 1 was far more enjoyable than part 2. You talk about Sakura but the same applies to Naruto maybe to a lesser extent but it applies nonetheless, his quest to save Sasuke has gone way too far and I think at this point the message it was supposed to convey has been lost, also look at Itachi his whole character is a walking contradiction and I could go on and on but you have to accept that fact, simply enjoy the manga and focus on what you like.
I do like Naruto and Sakura's dynamic but I can't say I enjoyed the team 7 drama during the kage summit arc but I have learned to live with it, in a sense I'm like you my fear is not about NaruSaku not being canon but the way it will be executed, the thing is you focus on this aspect of the manga when they are far worse things that has happened and will most likely happen, the romance subplot is just that a subplot, I'm more concerned about the plot and the way it has been handled.
I told you maybe you should take a rest that will make you appreciate the manga more, reading the manga chapter by chapter can be pretty irritating at least from my point of view.