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[BlackLightning]

I used to own a scooter... about... 5 years ago or so, I sold it a few years later because I got my car

[Sakura Blossoms]

I used to own a scooter... about... 5 years ago or so, I sold it a few years later because I got my car

Yeah, I plan to get a new car once I save up enough money

[Sakura Blossoms]

Hm --Click here to view--

Ugh. Drama FAILS. There is currently a BIG war going on in my family, and it just SUCKS. I'm afraid that relationships that have been strong for the entire of people's lives, will be irrevocably broken. And as much as I want to try to help fix things, I don't DARE get in the middle of things, as I don't want to end up causing any problems than what's already going on

[Smiter]

*hugs*

I experienced pretty much the same situation as you with my family a couple of years ago, just after my grandfather passed away. One of my aunts really got out of hand. She was always a bit abrasive/sharp, but it got worse afterwards. She and her husband got a bit nasty and they pretty much froze out my mother and my uncle. As a result, my aunt's branch of the family drifted away from those of my mother and uncle.

I don't know exactly what is happening with your family, but it's indeed best not to get in the middle of things unless you can see a real solution. If you can, try to remain neutral and give your best support to those you love.

I hope it works out OK. *hugs again*

[GoNeKr@zY]

Same here. Family Feuds Suck DX
I hope it doesn't get as bad for you as it did in my family...... My fathers side of the family is pretty much not really a family anymore

....anyways...... *huggles you*

[Dreamer]

You figure that some parents would want a good environment (attitude) for their children to grow up in.

I agree with what Smiter said about being the neutral.

If your family is on the verge of getting a divorce then i would take action and approach my parents while having them sit down together and tell them i don't want to have a future with y'all being apart and breaking the bond we've had ever since i was born. We've been together through thick and thin (from stone to thin ice) and i don't want to see the relationship fall apart now.

If your a a christian: --Click here to view--

If your a christian believer like myself you can have the family go to church together to help strengthen relationships or pray about, "I truly believe in the power of prayer and thanks to the Lord for all he's done.

Edited by Uzumakikage, 15 August 2009 - 06:02 AM.

[Sakura Blossoms]

You figure that some parents would want a good environment (attitude) for their children to grow up in.

I agree with what Smiter said about being the neutral.

If your family is on the verge of getting a divorce then i would take action and approach my parents while having them sit down together and tell them i don't want to have a future with y'all being apart and breaking the bond we've had ever since i was born. We've been together through thick and thin (from stone to thin ice) and i don't want to see the relationship fall apart now.

If your a a christian: --Click here to view--

If your a christian believer like myself you can have the family go to church together to help strengthen relationships or pray about, "I truly believe in the power of prayer and thanks to the Lord for all he's done.

Thanks for the feedback, even though it had nothing to do with any 'divorces'

[Sakura Blossoms]

*tacklehugglesglomps Smitey and Krazy*

Thanks for all you two said ;_;

Your words *really* helped me out through what was/is a very trying time with my family. Things are calmer now even though sides have been drawn, though for the most part everything is stable right now.

Thanks again to you guys Smitey, Krazy, and Uzumakikage

[BlackLightning]

glad that at least your family condition gets better, hope everything continue improves. I don't want to hear another situation where family broke apart because of some silly reasons.

[Sakura Blossoms]

glad that at least your family condition gets better, hope everything continue improves. I don't want to hear another situation where family broke apart because of some silly reasons.

Thanks BL

~~~

Ugh, I'm at work now, and since the start of last week I've been having breathing problems. Like I literally cannot get enough air into my lungs, and it's getting to be quite disturbing. I tried to look up information online about breathing difficulties, but there are like a 1001 different reasons for it, so I'm kind of stuck now -.-

[GoNeKr@zY]

erm.... breathing problems ? Do you have a tightness in the chest area ? o_0
please tell me you didn't have flu symptoms in the last 10 days..... if ya did the
breathing prob could be a symptom of the dreaded H1N1....
I hope to god that isn't the case D= I have enough friends with that accursed disease as it is >.<
I sure don't want you to also have it

[Sakura Blossoms]

erm.... breathing problems ? Do you have a tightness in the chest area ? o_0
please tell me you didn't have flu symptoms in the last 10 days..... if ya did the
breathing prob could be a symptom of the dreaded H1N1....
I hope to god that isn't the case D= I have enough friends with that accursed disease as it is >.<
I sure don't want you to also have it

Oh wow, that sucks Krazy. I'm sorry that so many friends of yours have gotten sick
Take care of yourself, and try to avoid getting sick yourself too.
And no I don't have any flu symptoms. I've figured out that the shortness of breath is a result of my anemia. It's one of the later symptoms. So, thanks for the concern but it's nothing as serious as the H1N1 virus. *gives hug*

[Sakura Blossoms]

Ugh --Click here to view--

The instigators of ALL the family drama that's been happening in my family lately, is the cause of my b*tch aunt and her bastard husband who is NO blood relation of mine, and someone I will NEVER acknowledge as a family 'uncle'. They don't care about anyone and only care about themselves, and absolutely don't care that their actions have caused such a rift between them, and everyone else in the family. I've done my absolute best to stay out of the middle of all the drama, but it's incredibly hard to do when I have to live in the same house as these a-holes. The amount of disrespect and plain cruelty they keep on showing to me, is a very hard pill to have to swallow on a daily basis. And this morning they have finally crossed the line, and pushed me past the point of forgiveness. I'm moving out. I've been planning on moving for a while now, but I had to loan someone a couple thousand, and that pretty much took all my savings. So, I've been trying to save up again, but other issues and problems have made that a bit difficult. And most of my family has been telling me that I need to get away from them, and to do my best to try to move out, ever since all the family drama started about two weeks ago. I was hoping to be able to save up some more, but they have gone way too far now. I'm not sure yet what I'm going to do quite yet, but I have to leave. Being here any longer is no longer a viable option.

[Sakura Blossoms]

WHOA! The scariest, creepiest, yet COOLEST thing I've seen in a while!

Gravity Wave :3

[Cloud]

SCIENCE IN MY BROWSER?

*DEEEEEEEEEEENIES*

>D

:teehee:

[Sakura Blossoms]

BUT IT'S SO PURDY!

[Dreamer]

Ugh --Click here to view--

The instigators of ALL the family drama that's been happening in my family lately, is the cause of my b*tch aunt and her bastard husband who is NO blood relation of mine, and someone I will NEVER acknowledge as a family 'uncle'. They don't care about anyone and only care about themselves, and absolutely don't care that their actions have caused such a rift between them, and everyone else in the family. I've done my absolute best to stay out of the middle of all the drama, but it's incredibly hard to do when I have to live in the same house as these a-holes. The amount of disrespect and plain cruelty they keep on showing to me, is a very hard pill to have to swallow on a daily basis. And this morning they have finally crossed the line, and pushed me past the point of forgiveness. I'm moving out. I've been planning on moving for a while now, but I had to loan someone a couple thousand, and that pretty much took all my savings. So, I've been trying to save up again, but other issues and problems have made that a bit difficult. And most of my family has been telling me that I need to get away from them, and to do my best to try to move out, ever since all the family drama started about two weeks ago. I was hoping to be able to save up some more, but they have gone way too far now. I'm not sure yet what I'm going to do quite yet, but I have to leave. Being here any longer is no longer a viable option.

I'm really sorry to hear about you and your family Shauna. I was really hoping things would get better for you. Maybe you can live with some of your other family members or be able to get an apartment room at least for now.

[Cloud]

PURDY CLOUDS? D:<

[Sakura Blossoms]

I'm really sorry to hear about you and your family Shauna. I was really hoping things would get better for you. Maybe you can live with some of your other family members or be able to get an apartment room at least for now.

I'm working on finding an apartment, though it's hard and stressful. Thanks for the concern

PURDY CLOUDS? D:<

Indeed.

[Sakura Blossoms]

Gawd, I'm so stressed >.<

I'm so stressed that my body is all tied up in knots and I can't seem to relax, and it's been YEARS since I've felt this stressed to the point where my body is all twisted up like this D: