It's not sexist. It is, however, another example of why men should be feminists. Cultural assumptions about how men and women should behave—whether that's in the US, Japan, Europe, South America, wherever—don't just create instances of sexism, but a sense of toxic masculinity. Just because men benefit from the patriarchy doesn't mean it still can't be damaging.
In this case, it's that dismissive attitude towards men's emotions.
Mmm....it's still sexist to me and to many men nowadays. People want equality, but never do they realize that it means that it goes both ways. If it is sexist towards women, then equality dictates that it is also sexist towards men. Seeing how I am offended as a man by what Kishimoto has done to both Naruto, Sasuke, and pretty much all the males in this series I call it sexism. It's also sexist towards women too.
I am not going to argue this and there is no one to change my mind about this. It is either sexist to both men and women or it is not sexist at all.
In the least possible sense, if the series isn't sexist...then the fandom is. The Naruto fandom who believes that the women deserve everything and the males deserve nothing. The fandom that focuses so much on the woman's feelings and not the man's. Sexism isn't always about over-sexualizing a character or belittling them because of their gender. Sometimes, it can just be something as simple as neglecting a person because of their gender role.
Like I said, if the only reason why anyone believes NH should be canon is because "Hinata deserves it" then THAT is sexist.
don't just create instances of sexism,
Seems like sound advice everyone should take...