You have not read this kid's posts as dutifully as I have. He's adding fuel to the fire. Things settle, and he starts it back up again.
The manga is over shadow1275, as far as we aware it at least it is over. There's always room for remakes, and better stories. Dragon Ball is an example of this, also Digimon is getting that awesome remake. However, I know when I smell something is up, and he is not being as sincere as we're being lead to believe. Also, Kishimoto did not intentionally make this ending to hurt you. We do not know the circumstances honestly. Let's settle it was a bad ending, and that is that.
Yes, it hurts, I know it hurts. It hurts like getting punched in the gut, but what I'm stressing is that you, and every one will heal and eventually move on.
That is a reality.
I honestly could care less about this screwed up ending. To me its a betrayal of everything I believe in about love and heroes. But most of all the idea that you truly are the decider of your own destiiny.
Kishimoto even said this in the manga and I quote, "when you believe in yourself, it gives you the power to change your destiny." This is something that I truly believe in.
This ending doesn't hurt me at all. It's a work of fiction. period. But I won't stand by something that espouses giving up and domestic abuse.
And as for the kid, all he's saying is not to give up. Part of me doesn't buy this ending either, part of me accepts it with a huge grain of salt. But if he wants to preach not giving up than let him. It's not that big of a deal. It's better than telling someone to roll over and die.