I think I was a little harsh with him, but it come naturally after reading so many inevitable arguments from NH/SS camp on NF.
The thing I don't get about NH, is that we can see so many thing going on between Naruto and Sakura, from praising each other, seductive teasing, tender smile from Sakura only for Naruto and no one else, joking, crying together, smiling together, supporting each other, admiring each other, putting the other one feelings before their on, passionate hugs, blushing at each other, closeness no other male female has in the manga, etc. etc. but Hinata just need to get one panel thinking about Naruto and it overshadow everything NS has already in NH's eyes, I mean NH even wants to claim that Naruto no longer loves Sakura, other says that he already start moving on to loving Hinata.
To be honest there is nothing wrong with NH, NH's problem is the fandom not the pairing itself
Fandoms have a tendency to get ahead of themselves - ours isn't exempt from this either all the time.
I find that reading the posts of neutral/anti Big-3 fans help me keep my perspective from getting too outlandish. Also, reading posts of the other pairings helps to consider things from the other side as well.
But I agree with you that Naruto and Sakura's relationship has many things that the other two do not. Naruto and Sakura have a much closer relationship than Sasuke and Sakura do or Naruto and Hinata does. They have expressions for one another that they haven't given to anyone else in the entire manga. Plus everything else that you listed out.
I also agree that there is an enormous double standard between the treatment of Sakura and Hinata's feelings, and Naruto's feelings. Hinata being worried during the skirmish with Tobi during the search for Itachi arc? True love. Naruto worried about Sakura ever - its just friendship! There's also the fact that many of those fans, when talking about how long its been since Naruto's romantic feelings for Sakura have come up, conveniently omit Naruto's blush in response to Sakura's confession, or the fact that Naruto never said that he didn't like her when Sakura challenged him outright on it). Sai's and Naruto's "She wants to save him because she loves him!" is proof of her romantic love, while Sai's "he really loves you" regarding Naruto and Sakura is just a third party mistake.
This is why I've pretty much stopped participating in the debates, and just stuck to reading them occasionally.
I further agree that in and of itself, NaruHina is not a bad pairing - I just find it boring, and underdeveloped. Its definitely more of the fandom that gets me so against the notion of it becoming canon, especially the tendency of some to place Hinata onto a pedestal while disregarding Naruto's feelings entirely.
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As far as NaruHina's "inevitability" goes, there are a few things that stand out to me: If the end pairing were so obviously NaruHina, why hasn't the anime studio, self-proclaimed Hinata fans, picked up on this and ran with it (i.e. in fillers, OPs/EDs, omakes, etc.)? Why wouldn't Kishi have given Hinata the role Sakura had in RtN / had AU!Hinata play a significant role / a role other than showing jealously over Naruto and Sakura's relationship?
Why not confirm in 469 that Naruto no longer loves Sakura romantically if that was the case? Why bring up Naruto's feelings for Sakura at all after Hinata's confession, especially in such a serious manner as he did in 457? Why hasn't Kishimoto shown anything non-platonic or romantic from Naruto to Hinata since her confession yet?
There's also the fact that Hinata's feelings are the least significant in terms of determining the outcome of the romance subplot, because she is the only one whose feelings don't need to change in order to make a pairing canon:
In order for NaruSaku to happen, Sakura's feelings need to change.
In order for NaruHina to happen, Naruto's feelings need to change.
In order for SasuSaku to happen, Sasuke's feelings need to change.
Naruto's feelings for Sakura have gotten stronger (while his feelings for Hinata haven't been shown to change from what they were after Hinata's proud failure speech in part one), Sasuke's feelings have grown into complete apathy regarding Sakura (whereas Naruto actually has the ability to reach him on some emotional level still), and Sakura's feelings have grown incredibly stronger for Naruto, exhibiting clear non-platonic aspects, while her view of Sasuke has taken a negative turn despite still having romantic feelings for him.
Edited by Paptala, 20 November 2012 - 02:48 AM.