That's the thing though. Someone who truly cares about you will put some sense into you when you cross some limits.
Not because OMG they're abusive, but because they want the best for you.
But these kids can't grasp this thing because with them, everything is OMG abuse!
They have no idea what real abuse truly is...
They have been taught to see through the eyes of a victim. Victimology, I think its called. They are also spoiled, entitled, narrow-minded, and sheltered so their views of things are very limited...even if they are nearly 40 years old.
They are also selective in who they see as a victim. Hinata and Naruto are victims because they insert themselves into them. Sasuke Sakura and Neji are not because they don't like them and every victim needs an abuser.
Noup milenials, I'm IT engineer so don't know much about politics but here in Latin America our kids are dying in Argentina 6 of 10 kids don't have anything to eat, Chile is a mess, Venezuela you know how it's going, and so on. But we try to import the same problem rich countries has. Everything is Homophobic or racist or offensive. And Naruto is a proof that they're a bunch of idiots; "ohhh Hinata always loved naruto so don't care about the history if their paring is canon"
Sorry if I can't make comments like this in the forum
Its fine. Just don't too far into politics.
Exactly and they do it out of irritation for their partner and their antics and actions. But we see them being sweet with them too.
Hell, Goku was DEAD for seven years and Chichi never remarried due to how much she loves him, plus we know
Goku may not have gotten marriage at first but he does love Chichi with all his heart.
And in Eds case, his feelings for Winry help too since he knows joy with her as Hohenheim, even for his fears due to his long life, felt such joy with Trisha, Ed and Al in his life.
The problems are a lot of them don't know what a healthy relationship looks like because they have never been in one or even seen one.
I stopped arguing too. If I had the opportunity to actually argue, I first ask if my argument with actually be taken seriously or will they just brush it off. I then test the waters by bringing up something that is not even about Hinata or pairings, but rather just a simple fact like "Sakura was able to beat Sasori." If they say "Chiyo beat Sasori and Sakura needed tons of help and without Chiyo she would have died" that's when I know it is a wasted effort. You have Sasori complimenting Sakura saying how great she was, you have Chiyo literally say that Sakura could have done it all on her own and implies she was more of a burden because she had to worry about her safety.
I have seen people use arguments like
"Sakura is bad because she did nothing when Pain attacked."
My literal response was "Hinata didn't do anything either. Might as well say 'Hinata is a horrible woman because she didn't grab a hammer and help rebuild Konoha after it was destroyed."
EVERYTHING is used against Sakura to the point that it borders on absolute most bias hatred. Everyday I see their arguments get lower. "Sakura is a bad woman because she wears red meanwhile Hinata wears Blue which is a better color." Sakura can't have anything. Nothing positive can be about Sakura to them which makes me surprised they are okay with Salad being her kid. Sakura make a cute and powerful kid? A compliment? Wow. Progress, but I guess because it is with Sasuke so it is okay.
People are so used to special treatment and being placed on pedestals that everyday interaction is considered problematic, discrimination, and abuse.
What is most concerning is that if an anime girl hits an anime guy even as a joke...it is considered abuse and she doesn't deserve him.
If a girl in REAL LIFE hits a guy in REAL LIFE, people laugh and consider it a joke...what the hell?
What is with this generation and social standing of double standards?
The reasons Chiyo was there was three-fold one to expand/explain on Sasori's backstory to give the fight emotional depth, two to give support because it was Sakura's fight major fight, and three to constantly be impressed by how good Sakura was. The problem was that Kishimoto didn't treat Sakura was the third protagonist and didn't included her in the Jutsu/powers arms race Naruto and Sasuke was in.