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One nice thing I can say about SS fans is that they actually are able to appreciate Sakura as a character, and are less likely to bash her. I feel like that is one thing we NS fans have in common with SS fans, which is nice. Strangely, though, I don't feel NH fans care all that much about Naruto. I sort of feel their love for Hinata specifically over-shadows their love for Naruto's character. Hm.
I am not sure of how much SS fans care about Sakura. I have seen some of them telling if she doesn't hook up with Sasuke, they would rather seeing her dead. But I agree with your assessment about NH fans. They are always telling they must get together because Hinata is so good and nice and sweet and she has suffered so much (unlike people like Gaara, Itachi, Naruto, Neji, Orochimaru, Tsunade, Anko...) that she deserves a happy end, and Naruto is dumb and gay for not noticing her (and now a heartless, ingrateful bastard).
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Nope. For example in Alice 19th I found Kyo crashingly dull a character (Yuu Watase's most uninteresting male lead ever) but I knew Alice and Kyo would end up together, even though I though Alice and Frey had much more exciting connection. Alice had a Hinata like crush on Kyo, Kyo liked Alice but it just wasn't terribly interesting, Kyo was rather a flat character, Frey was much more exciting and he liked Alice and Alice was a bit attracted to him to. I know manga plotlines though and knew it would be Alice and Kyo. So I just enjoyed the scenes with Frey and otherwise just read the manga to see where the plot went. If I like a pairing that will never happen (another example- Snape and Lilly in the Harry Potter series, I enjoy the occasional moments in flashbacks where we saw them together, and read lots of Snape/Lilly fanfic. Rowling did say Lilly did love Snape back, and they would have probably got together if Snape hadn't gotten so involved with the Death Eaters. So the fanfic just goes down that what if route. But I'm not throwing fits about who Rowling paired characters with, I knew it was going to be Ron/Hermione from the first book. I never cared much for Ron or not much for Harry either. I liked Hermoine and probably would have found it more satisfying if she ended up with neither, and became a strong, happy and independent witch. But I'm not throwing a fit about that either.)
Hmm... You know, when I started reading Urusei Yatsura, I believed Ataru and Shinobu would get together. Geez, there even was an early chapter set in the future where they were married and raising their son. But then I heard Ataru and Lum got together and I was shocked (and I heard way later Takahashi's editor had forced her to change the main couple because Ataru/Lum was more popular. If that is true, it explains why Ataru and Lum always felt forced to me). But I didn't make a fuss of it and tried enjoying scenes where Ataru and Shinobu interacted and appreciating Ataru and Lum's relationship how it was (even if it never completely clicked for me).
A similar story happened when I was reading Ranma. I liked Ryouga/Ukyo pairing. But when Akari got introduced I knew right away Ryoga and Ukyo would never get together (and unless I'm mistaken, truly we would never see them sharing pannel time again). I resigned myself to it and I don't threw a fit either.