Yeah. I'm writing a story now where Sakura decides she doesn't want to be with Sasuke after her crappy display at the end of the war but Naruto won't accept her. He's seeing Hinata and Sakura confronts him and he's like "You want me to dump Hinata because you found feelings for me five years later?" and she goes on a huge tirade about how she always liked him and she did that in the LOI because she wanted to be with him, not Sasuke. And he ultimately pushed her towards Sasuke. "Do you feel good that you saved me from lying to myself? Do I look happy to you?!" "No..."
When I finished writing it, I realized they could have the exact same conversation in the post 700 canon verse, with literally no change of wording except how many years later it was. He really did Sakura no favors whatsoever. Sakura was trying to control her own destiny but Naruto wouldn't let her. What a douchebag.
And Kishimoto could have done this and possibly redeem Sakura's confession in it's entirely just by doing this. You can even have Shikamaru or Ino or both be like "You two are the dumbest people we have ever met."
I always hated this plot point in Naruto. The main character telling people what they should feel insteads of trying to help them find a better answer. It never helps that way and sometimes pushing someone like that makes everything worse.
Bold: That is exactly what Japan thinks. He is a d-bag because for all the talk he does about being true to yourself, doing the right things, and so forth...he does the exact opposite himself. Basically, if anyone else does it, it is wrong and Naruto scolds you, but if Naruto himself does it...it is okay. What a selfish f!@# this Naruto is.
Actually that falls in line with a pet theory of mine

When you tell someone that they deserve better than you, you are disregarding that person's feelings for your own ego; to make yourself feel better which it doesn't. that is not humility, that is a sort of indirect arrogance. It is like basically saying "I know what's best for you and your opinions don't matter". Maybe not on a surface level but definitely subconsciously. If someone FEELS THAT WAY with you and you feel the same way about them ( the feeling is mutual in other words) then accepting them IS considering that person's feelings. If you ask me anyway
This is especially true in my life. I have had several girfiends in my life and most would always me the "you can have any girl you wanted." I always replied back with "Well, why can I have you?" That always left with blank faces and then them getting angry. Instead of just telling me "I don't see you that way," they rather lie to me and think they are trying to be a good person.
Like the one you mentioned: "When you tell someone that they deserve better than you,"
I got this one too and after a while I was like "Well, why don't I deserve you? I didn't want "better" because to me you were the better." Again, it all ended in anger and with them thinking they are doing me a favor by being this nice person when really they were just lying to me about not wanting to be in a relationship. I never got this argument either. What do we really "deserve" and what is defined as "better?" This is what caused Naruto's downfall. It is not that he didn't love Sakura...it was that he felt he didn't deserve her. He just didn't accept or didn;t want to accept the reality in front of him.
It is almost like Naruto WANTS to be miserable.
(By the way, I even got the famous: "My boyfriend is in Iraq" one in collage a lot too. Every girl seemed to use that one as their excuse to not date me. The surprise on their face when I saw them dating and I went to their boyfriends saying "Oh glad you came back from Iraq. Good work, Soldier." And their boyfriends look at me like I was nuts and telling them that "Your girlfriend said you were in Iraq." I usually sat down next to her and said "Next time you don't want to date me...just say so. Don't feed me lies otherwise your boyfriend here might think you're untrustworthy." In a sadistic way, I am hoping their relationship fell apart because I did that in hoping to teach them a lesson about truth.)
A few other girlfriends I went through happened because my mother decided to tell me how to think instead of letting me be happy. The person I am marrying now, my mother tried to tell me that she was brainwashing me all because I decided to go on a planned date I had for a week with my girlfriend instead of going to Chilis with my mom who, instead of being an understanding person, decided to treat me like crap and disowned me.
Yeah, everyone was forced to conform to Naruto's way of thinking, even those who had been firmly entrenched in their beliefs for a decade or more like Nagato and Obito. Naruto also only seemed to make such attempts to (forcibly) change people when they're either "close" to him or he feels he can relate to on some level (Haku, Gaara, Nagato, Obito, etc.) but if they're neither of those things, Naruto has shown to be far less committed and caring, and can sometimes even be contemptuous of them. Some of the fillers or movies even have shown it, like Koyuki in the first movie; she asks Naruto why he keeps finding her and bringing her back. Usually, when it comes to someone "close" or relatable, Naruto would give some "good guy" speech that might inspire her to stop running away and such, but here, where he's not close to nor relates to Koyuki at all? It's because it's his mission...that's it. He doesn't care about stopping Doto, he doesn't care about the suffering the people were going through at his hands, it's just because it's his mission.
Indeed and sometimes it was justifiable. Gaara for example. They were exactly alike in almost every way. Others it seems less likely.
Actually what I find so silly is that 99% of the people he used TNJ on seemed to just go with the flow and immediatly accept Naruto at his word without any real argument. Even if they knew what Naruto was talking about was bull. That's what gets me. Naruto kept using the same arguments and people kept just going with it. No. Eventually you are going to find someone who either seen or experienced enough to know that what he was saying is bull or they just downright say "Yeah, cool story, bro, but I like being evil. It is alot more profitable."
Naruto would try to talk people out of doing bad things, but then when asked "Alright, well what is an alternative?" Naruto had no answer. He just talked people out of bieng evil because he said it was wrong with some of it being absolutly justifiable. He didn't solve their problems or solve their issues. "Violence is bad" "Why?" "Because I said so." "Well, what if the other person is worse than me and I want to kill them to protect others?" "It is still bad." "Why?" "I already said why, because I said so." This is what I like to call the "Because I'm Batman" argument.
The more the story kept going, the less it seemed like Naruto didn't know anything he was talking about. If anything, Gaara was the last person he actually talked to that he shared any connection with. The rest...well, Naruto was trying to brainwash. Nagato even asked him "How are you going to achieve world peace?" "I don't know" And then Nagato is just like "Well, that's good enough for me....let's bring back everyone I killed."
If it was THAT easy....we wouldn't be having the problems we have in real life.
"Naruto, how do you achieve world peace?"
"I don't know"
This is why I say that Naruto didn't achieve world peace....it was everyone else who did...Naruto just took the credit. If anything, Obito achieved world peace just by being evil and having the whole world against him. If not for Obito, Naruto wouldn't even be alive.
It's so screwed up how he's blatantly pushed towards Hinata in the Last (by Sakura, ironically)
Like if he doesn't want to walk home with her, isn't that because he probably isn't interested in her? Why do you have to tell him to do that? Just let things happen naturally.
Sakura really isn't a good friend for doing that. If she had any class she'd push him towards Ino. But I guess she didn't think very highly of him so she didn't want her friend to be stuck with him.
It reminds me of Natasha and Steve in the MCU The Winter Soldier. Why is Black Widow all of a sudden so interested in Captain America's love life? Even HISHE poked fun at it.
I mean, why wouldn't he be an alcoholic? His kids hate him, he ruined his life, and has to watch the woman he loved be miserable married to his best friend after she pushed him to marry someone he was never interested in. It's a pathetic existence. Why not have an escape from it? It's this kind of thing that is the reason people become alcoholics in the first place. Not just because of the effects from it. It's self-medication for a more serious problem.
Well, Naruto is more of a drunk. Alcoholics go to class and admit they have a problem. Naruto mostly just lives in denial.
I haven't doubled down on bashing, I've doubled down on truth. Sakura is a doormat around Sasuke. That isn't bashing, that's a fact. You not liking it because it goes against your headcanons is not my problem and it does not constitute bashing. She gets waled all over in regards to Sasuke, and it's pathetic. That's fact, whether you like it or not.
The bolded is the whole reason why most of the fans hate Sakura in the first place. Because she is a doormat to Sasuke. She is obsessive and she lets Sasuke do whatever he wants without saying a world and even excusing it.
Hinata is the exact same way though and it is distubring that Hinata gets praised for this while Sakura does not. Maybe because Naruto isn't upfront abusive to Hinata, but he is still neglectful to her.
Edited by James S Cassidy, 06 November 2017 - 11:35 PM.