
The thing that makes me hate female in the manga is , the author wants the reader to see how smart they are by doing stuff , but when it comes to feelings they become very stupid. The best medic in the world can't solve the riddle of her heart .... how funny is that??. I mean i don't know a lot of woman but is this normal in the real world ?? does woman behave/act/think like this ??
It's very similar to how I hate the males in this series too. The author wants to see the men be emotional and understand pain, lose, gain, appreciation, comradery, and connections, but when it comes to matters of the heart they all of a sudden have no clue and are like "What is "Love?" Can you eat it?" The man can solve everyone else's relationships can and friendships, but when it comes to their own they all of a sudden they can't figure it out. At least I lamshade myself at times especially when I was single. "Man, I can get everyone else their soul mate, but I can't find mine."
I can't speak for women, but I feel I can speak for men when I say...we are not that stupid. We are simple and we keep it simple, but we are not that stupid.
We don't just instantly change our minds on love at the drop of a hat because a girl says "I love you" to us. Especially if we don't know them or don't care about them. In fact, if a girl was so stalkerish because she said she loves me, we probably would find it creepy. In truth, we want real women and not posers or women who love us for our money or recognition.Most men love women who see them for them. Some are shallow, yes, but some females can be too. I am talking about the average joe though. We just want someone who loves and put up with our faults because they see something better. No nagging on the bad things and telling us to change because she wants us to be better and not because it would be better for us.
As for the behavior...yeah, it starts out like this, but when people start to get rejected or ignored despite what their feelings are, they tend to grow up. I had some high school crushes, but I grew up from them and found better people to be with. I even got better friends because of it too. The problem is not how they started, the problem is the stagnantion. The fact that they learn nothing and continue to believe in something that is not true. If any man treats a woman like how Sasuke treated Sakura for all those years, she would eventually move on from him realizing that what she thought she wanted or saw is not what the reality is. Look at Toradora and how Taiga is despicted. She wanted to love this one guy, but realized that not only does he not feel the same way, but maybe her real feelings are for the real guy who loved her for being her and not some primpy princess like she tried acting to be.
People hate posers.
NaruHina is not an example of abuse like SS is, but rather a example of "settlement." Usually in those kinds of relationships, they are just not compatible. They can be good to each other all they want, but when it never feels like they truly connect or they seem like a round peg in a square hole....it doesn't tend to work out. This is especially true when Hinata is never depicted as putting Naruto first over herself. I mean, some people say she does, but she says she does something because "she wants Naruto to be happy." Hinata specifically says she does things because she wants Naruto to notice her. "I am just being selfish because I hope Naruto notices me" and he doesn't. He doesn't notice her at all. This is why he had to be told he loved Hinata and not actually feel it himself. I keep bringing back to the one scene in Naruto the Last.
"Naruto, you should ask HInata if you could walk her home."
"Why?"
Like what Wade Wilson says: "Your crazy matches my crazy" and that is what it really should be about.
I want to bring up Love Hina in which Keitaro thinks that he promised to be with Mutsumi, but in reality he loves Narusegawa. The genius behind this scene is he is too preoccupied with keeping this "promise" that he forgets his own heart in what he tells him. Eventually, he realizes that the promise doesn't mean anything if his heart is not in it. If he loves Naru and she loves him regardless of faults, then the promise is meaningless. He says sorry to Mutsumi for breaking his promise, but she says to him that "If you truly love her and she loves you, never let her go."
I think this is why the POAL was so powerful when Naruto made it. It wasn't just a simple promise out of wanting to be noticed, he did it because he wanted to see Sakura happy and to smile...no matter if it caused him pain and sadness. I guess you really have to be in love to truly understand it, but if you love someone that much...it makes you smile just to see them smile. The problem is accepting the truth that she may love you back which is sometimes hard, but again the problem could easily be solved if Sakura kept to her guns and expressed being with Naruto rather than Sasuke. Instead, she was brainwashed into being back with Sasuke despite all the red flags and the obvious "I don't love you" signs.
It is funny how men are told to let go of women if the girl doesn't love them, but apparently women should never give up on their first love no matter what. Men have feelings too that are just as real. It is not fake or trivial. I never seen a man fight over a girl because he was rivals with another guy and not because he love the girl. That is downright stupid and insulting. Men's emotions are not that trivial. We may be closeted emotionally, but does not mean our emotions are fake or some kind of competition.