thread derailed slightly
to the original question.
Disagree the land of iron arc much like the rest of the manga had great potential for character development for Sakura and should have been used as a smalls tumble in NaruSakus relationship that they then recover from and become stronger then ever.
I agree with you on this. The War Arc was the worst. 693 is that bad. It's a giant reset button on her character as she repeats her lowest. What was the point of her character journey only to end up right back where it started? 500+ chapters only to be where we were in 181? What the hell?
what trully irks me about this scene in particular is that its conclusion in the ending gives meat to Haters arguments about Sakura being manipulative and using Naruto. we know this is false but with the ending now impossible to dispute.
She did try to manipulate his feelings. This is true whether she held feelings or not. It's true even if it ends NS. Even if she was madly in love withe him and only him, the timing of the confession clearly indicates it wasn't being done for it's own sake. She was trying to use his feelings to get him to take a course of action that she desired. It was for his own safety, but, at it's core, she was using them to get him to do something she wanted him to do. It's manipulation regardless of whether her feelings were genuine.
I do disagree that it makes her this horrible person though,
She knew simply saying, you don't have to after him, it's dangerous wouldn't cut. Moreover, because of what Sai said to her she felt the reason he was so dedicated was POAL. I think she also believes (correctly), that saying I free you from that, wouldn't do it. Because of Sai, she believed he was killing himself because of his feelings for her and that it was rooted in what he believes she wanted. This obviously turned out to be incorrect, but given how the evens unfolded for her it's not an unreasonable belief.
Given what she believes his motivating factor is, she was wanted to free him from that promise. I can't say this was the best way to do it, but as I said, simply saying your free was't going to accomplish that. Then again, I cannot think of a good way that would also have been effective.
It's irritating to me that people let their pairing preference shut down their empathy on this. It's not this horrible thing that blights her character. It's an entirely human thing to do.
Statement: The story of rescuing Sasuke shouldn't be the main focus of Naruto (character and/or series).
Agree or disagree?
Neither. It's not the only direction it could have taken, but the choice in and of itself isn't bad. What's bad is the horrid execution of that idea, particularly Sasuke's plot shied in Part 2.