Well, I am a man....and I am offended by it. A man's feelings should be taken into consideration too. We are not trophies or a prize to be won just because women compete. You don't have to agree, but just because someone disagrees doesn't make it any less true.
If the only reason why NH should be canon is because "Hinata deserves him," then it's wrong and it's sexist.
Yeah how is that any less offensive than saying a guy should get a girl cause "he deserves her"? either case it's saying one sex or another is a prized to be earned. But in the case of a girl deserving a guy it's not "objectifying" 
fcking christ I didn't say it wasn't cruel. But based on this and past discussions on this site, you seem to be the kind of guy that thinks sexism is being 'mean' to a certain gender, yet if it was that simple it wouldn't be an ism/a set of ideas and principles that created what we know today as the patriarchy.
It's not sexist. It is, however, another example of why men should be feminists. Cultural assumptions about how men and women should behave—whether that's in the US, Japan, Europe, South America, wherever—don't just create instances of sexism, but a sense of toxic masculinity. Just because men benefit from the patriarchy doesn't mean it still can't be damaging.
In this case, it's that dismissive attitude towards men's emotions.
Yes I think it is toxic masculinity as well. People criticize the ending for not respecting the guys' emotions, and I agree with that, but I also want to offer another side of things; They are shown to be not very emotional at all, generally speaking. They look dead inside tbhXD. Compare them to the girls, whose lives and character significance is at the mercy of their love interest. Sakura opens up a clinic to keep her mind off of Sas, and she is not important to the plot if Sas is not involved, even if he is it is a big maybe. Hinata was only a main character in her love story TL, in the Boruto movie she's barely there. It was a family movie just like RtN, yet Kushina was as important as Minato in that movie.
Even if Sasuke went against his emotions to marry Sakura(which is not shown, it's a kittening guess because we don't recognize these characters anymore), it didn't take away his freedom. He still does whatever the kitten he wants. Naruto too. They still lead the same life they would if they had not married their spouses, I think they would have the same life(just with other people), had the ending been not retcon. Now look at Sakura, it is confirmed that she also had to wipe off her growing feelings for Naruto and not move on from Sasuke, and who's now living in dept as a lonely single mother. They're in a similar situation, yet people say only women's feelings matter. Let's put a twist on it; in a way, Naruto and Sasuke's emotions mattered so much that the only way they would marry Hinata and Sakura was to cleanse them off completely, and now they don't give a kitten. It's like in TVD where they turn their humanity off
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However, SNS still care about eachother and not anything else apparently, because the ship is loved by Kishi and the fandom. Boruto movie is his proudest work and self-proclaimed masterpiece, and his most popular movie. Compare that to NH which is only loved by fans, or NS which Kishi believes is only loved by him.
Edited by sushi., 10 October 2015 - 08:33 PM.