Sure thing :)! And thanks for replying!
Just in general. Some questions I see are why anyone would like SasuSaku AT ALL and go straight into...not really fandom bashing per se but just generalizations and a few harsh accusations.
For me personally, I'll admit there are superficial reasons like pink and blue just being pleasing aesthetically(and to be fair I initially liked NaruSaku for superficial reasons as well haha).
But for real I just like to see their personalities clicking.
Sakura is kind and caring, definitely a people person, somewhat impatient with a short temper and can be mischievous under the right conditions, and above all she's incredibly intelligent with a lot of potential.
As for Sasuke, he's socially awkward to the brim(it's actually kind of funny how he has allies since he's so direct with people lol) and stoic, but also fiercely determined, incredibly intelligent and indeed if you can get him(and keep him) on your side...And well he DOES have those moments(just like Naruto and Sakura) where you are reminded of his part 1 self and where's he kinda adorably(sorry to use that word haha) human.
The main point of that is Sasuke and Sakura are 3D characters. Sasuke isn't JUST the stone-cold stoic or the psychopathic, floozy, and Sakura isn't just the tsundere. They have these strengths and weaknesses that play off of each other and for me personally, personality compatibility is what draws me to certain fictional couples.
As for the relationship, I REALLY DON'T see this as an unequal relationship.
In fact it gets point out time and time again that Sakura is standing up to Sasuke. She's not super impressed with him at the moment and she won't tolerate him being rude to Naruto. I do believe that if Sasuke were to be rude to a guest or get dangerous during training, she'd assert her opinion just as she would with Naruto.
And judging by Sasuke's interactions with Karin, Itachi, Obito, and to some extent Naruto, Sasuke wouldn't just turn his back on Sakura when she's speaking. Sasuke actually does a lot of listening and I think his respect for the person(or in Naruto's case, just plain determination to get away from) decides whether or not he'll consider their words and respond. He can get bullheaded no doubt But I don't think it's something that Sakura can't handle/should leave him for.
And Sasuke would respect Sakura and vice versa, because these two would really have to care and love each other to be in a relationship. Sasuke was never the type of character to get in a relationship purely for appearences sake or for the 'goal of having Uchiha babies' and Sakura has learned by now that she shouldn't be with something just because of who is he or she THINKS she should be with them.
And that's the cliff notes version.
NOTE THIS IS NOT an attempt to get you to like SasuSaku OR believe in it's chances of happening in canon! Seriously it ISN'T. I wanted to do this because again, I see a lot of generalizations and accusations geared towards SasuSaku fans, and I see a LOT of questions asked, but none of this gets addressed(and answers contain generalizations) because I guess there are no SasuSaku fans here .
I don't want to pick or start a fight or anything. Just hopefully debunk some stereotypes. I come in peace I swear haha !
Are you a SS shipper or SK shipper? I am a hardcore NS shipper myself because this pairing is just perfect and adorable. Relevance of Karin in Sasuke's life and her importance to Sasuke has been beautifully explained in some of your posts. I am NS shipper and I support SK just because I want NS to go canon XD. I don't ship SK as much as I ship NS, but yeah I do support it to some extent. I respect your views on Sakura being the right person for Sasuke, but I disagree with some things. Superficial reasons like blue goes well with pink are okay, but I disagree to the fact that Sakura's and Sasuke's personalities mesh well with each other. Its more like Sakura's and Naruto's personalities mesh well with each other, and that's exactly why they were compared to Heaven and Earth, one incomplete without the other. 'They have their strengths and weaknesses that play off each other and for me personally, personal compatibility is what draws me towards certain fiction couples' this thing more of applies to NS rather than SS. I don't say that SS relationship is unequal/bad/negative, I mean it can turn out to be good but NS is the best. Its not the matter of bad and good I am talking about here, but a matter of good and best, you see?. Now, since our views differ I won't say you are wrong and I am right, its just that you are right in your place and I in mine. I still do believe that deep down, Sasuke is still the part 1 good Sasuke but personally, it would take a lot lot more to make SS work since he has been very bad to everyone especially Naruto and Sakura(He tried to kill her TWICE) and he hasen't even apologised for it yet except for Karin. He has surely left a negative imprint on Sakura and whatever he does, Sasuke's impression will never be the same infront of Sakura how much ever she pretends it to be. SK can strengthen based on the current scenarios. Maybe my opinion is biased, but hey its just my opinion, not everyone feels the same. Now, I do respect your views on SS and why you like it and I do not mean to insult your views or bash SS in this post, incase I have done so, my sincere apologies for it :)
Edited by narusaku256, 27 March 2014 - 02:18 PM.