You can't take what a lot of anti-ending people say personally, especially not on the anti-Sakura bit. What is there to like about 'canon' Sakura? She's nothing like the girl we supported and watched grow as the series developed. 'Canon' Sakura and our version of Fanon Sakura are like two separate entities.
Can I read an anti-Sakura rant about how selfish she is when it comes to Sasuke and what great damage her involvement with him has done to her character and agree? Yes, I surely can. I can't stand to look at what Sakura has become. Seeing the Uchiha symbol on her back is a disgrace to their clan, and a disgrace to the character she could have been. Yes, I can completely hate on canon Sakura while thoroughly enjoying and supporting our interpretation of her, an interpretation I see as more correct (whether she ends up with Naruto or not, it is still 10x better that what 'canon' Sakura is)
I agree that the Konoha system is corrupt and it needed to be changed. The whole Shinobi system needed to be changed. Problem is, I didn't support Sasuke's methods, killing everyone to start anew would have just continued the cycle. He didn't even really have a plan after that, he just wanted to send the world into chaos and watch over a new system that would eventually form.
I supported Naruto (wrongly so) because I thought we would see his course of action come into play during the ending. I thought we would see the changes that needed to happen. The changes that Jiraiya spent his life regretting not being able to do more about. The changes that Nagato and his friends risked their lives and everything they had to put forth. I thought Naruto would bring about a true new era where they didn't need to train children to kill each other. As you can see, everything is more or less the same. Yes, in 'canon' I am extremely anti-establishment, the same establishment that 'canon' Naruto is in charge of. To say I am disappointed in what used to be my favorite character is an understatement. I can't stand to look at his canon version either. Naruto is nothing but another warm seat in the Hokage's chair who changed nothing, or very little. I'm disappointed in EVERYONE who kept things more or less the same, including Shikamaru and Kakashi.
I couldn't be against Minato and Kushina even if I tried, but I do remember one thing. People were upset about Minato's words to Kushina WAYYY before this ending. I remember a Naruto artist I still watched named Nekoni was real mad/disappointed about it. Even I was a little awed at the poor excuse Kishi gave to kill off Minato. There were a million other solutions than "I'm committing suicide because I can't raise him without you." I cannot blame Minato and Kushina for what the system has done to them or their never-to-be family.
I don't think the Uchiha's were perfect little angels, I'm not even particularly upset that they were all killed off because of what they planned to do, but the Uchiha's are just an example of what the corrupt system can create. They were oppressed and segregated from everyone else. I don't think Tobirama was wrong to worry about their easily damaged minds and emotional states, but he went about it all in the wrong way. He too was just the end result of centuries worth of humans and children just killing each other over and over again because of age old grudges.
The anti-ending peoples, especially on tumblr, have every right to hate what Naruto has become. Look at what's happened to this series, look at what's happened to this fandom. I've never seen anything like it, and most of it is Kishi's fault. Naruto never ended, Kishi and his allies pretended it did and sent this fandom into a frenzy. Even some of his staff were basically giving a verbal middle finger in plain language to people upset over the ending. They did a piss poor job, and they continue to do a piss poor job of trying to fix it and continue it. The hatred will never stop, and it'll never get better. It will remain this way, the people who hate all of it now vs. the people who love all of it (but they actually don't and paint their fantasies over it)
Like I said at the beginning, you can't take what many anti-ending people say to heart. They aren't really talking about NaruSaku fans, they aren't talking about fans of Naruto and Sakura's characters as we interpreted them to be (except the ones who always disliked their characters despite what happened in the manga before fall to the ending). It's not our fight anymore. When I see you on Tumblr debating these people, I always want to ask, "Why are you still fighting? There's no point. We're not in that fandom anymore."
As I've always said, yeah, a NaruSaku fan CAN be an anti-ender, and in fact, most of us are. But not all anti-enders are NaruSaku fans. I'd say the amount of NaruSaku fans who actively post in the anti-ending tags are a very small minority. Yeah, now a lot of non-NaruSaku anti-enders will defend us (and SNS) because we were the lesser of the evils, but that doesn't mean they are on our side. That does not mean they are our allies. We are not 'sisters', we just happen to agree on this one big thing and for that, we'll support each others arguments on that one thing.
The NaruSaku fandom... we are so far removed now and we're drifting further and further away from this series. It will only get better for us, it will only get better for you, but you just have to understand... there's no point of us fighting anymore. Maybe you can be sassy to some pro-enders, but there's literally no point in facing anti-enders. I really wish we could all spend less time discussing those ships and that manga and just focus on our own stuff now. We have so much material, it's ridiculous. I've seen other fandoms with 10x less continue to pump out beautiful things day in and day out, even after their pairings aren't canon and a decade has passed.
The NaruSaku fandom needs to get it together, and fighting pro-enders/anti-enders is only setting us back.