How so?
But..but...he's so nice and wise 
Really? It would have been anticlimactic if she had healed him, why give her a hard time? I know what you mean though...
Well when I was part of the fandom back at the beginning of bleach, things were nice and easy. The "pairing wars" didn't came even close to the ferocity of the Naruto ones, fans were respectful, cared more for the story etc.
But after soul society arc I lost quite an interest for bleach and so I stopped being an active part in the fandom.
Now luffyq1 and a few other members here are telling me the IR fandom is behaving badly concerning a cool developed character like Orihime
, shame
So obviously the fandom got a lot more violent, nothing surpasses the sheer stupidity and toxicness of the Naruto pairing fandom tho