Man but this sounds like NH AND SS REASONS! SS = Sakura being terrible for not loving Sasuke anymore; NH = Hinata being the right one for Naruto. WHAT THE ACTUAL kitten? No, really, it sounds awful!
I think what kills me the most is that Kishimoto is literally justifying their horrible, twisted logic. He's just as messed up as some of them. And that hurts considering that so many people used look up to him, including me.