Doesn't that sound kind of egotistical? You're basically asking people "why are you different" and then judge them based on their answers. It is almost borderline "You're wrong, but I want to see why you think you are right."
Did I imply that my opinion was somehow superior to theirs? If anything it would be the contrary for someone who places too much worth in others' opinions, valuing it before their own and incessantly challenging themselves as to whether they are accurate or not. It isn't a judgement of their characters, at least not from my personal perspective, but a reflection to see what differences there are and to consider if there is greater validity to what they say than myself. Although I don't know what your thoughts on the matter are I like to believe that it could be referred to as maintaining at least a somewhat impartial outlook.
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Like if I wanted to, I could say that your use of big words in a internet forum is trying to assert that your intelligence is above everyone else and that by using big words you try to explain that you wish to break down logic into a scientific study and placing yourself on a higher podium thinking you have all the right answers while everyone else is wrong. A perception of what our thoughts on paper automatically assume what kind of person we are based on personal beliefs. A book by it's cover so to speak.
No, I just treat the process of debating as a formal practice that should be approached seriously whilst acting and responding to the best of what knowledge I have. But I will admit that your presumption of me is quite misplaced. I have nothing but personal interpretation to offer. The fact that someone would even acknowledge someone else's response suggests a level of value being assigned to what they are stating. I don't judge the manga in a scientific manner but I do believe that there are many aspects of it that can be defined using perspectives existent beyond the realm of fantasy.
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Of course, you might not see it this way, but others might and then you question on whether or not they are right or wrong. You then question the actual existence of it and how people can perceive such a thing in such a world and assume that they only see what they want to believe. I could even argue that you only see what you want to believe as well and the world is not what we think is. We could break this down as to what is right or wrong and the differences between subjective and objective views. Whether or not a person chooses what they like to see is dependent on who they are personality wise. I could say I like Sakura more because I like strong independent woman who don't take nonsense, but at the same time strive to better other people.
The conclusions that they arrive to may be products of bias, yes, others created from the observation of events and deducing what the most logical conclusion is. You're correct that I do personally interpret things as I want to, but I believe that to challenge your own opinions is a virtue, not an implication of weakness or something that should be discouraged. But then I suppose that isn't relevant to what you're stating.
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People will always ask why, but sometimes there is no answer. Why do you believe in god? Why do you believe in faith? Why do you believe in hope? Why don't you believe in any of these things? If we all thought exactly the same, then no one would be different and sometimes that is the answer you have to accept. We're just different. We all think differently, but that doesn't mean one person is correct and the other isn't.
I agree, there is no fully definable belief system and everyone will look upon situations or concepts in a different manner. Oddly enough, we appear to be at odds with each once again because of that though and it isn't exactly what I would call enjoyable to experience considering the time expended to address your points.
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I could argue that because you scrutinize people based on answers that to you perceive as being valid this will make you a bad person, but that doesn't mean this statement would be correct. I guess in one form it can be perceived to be, but that's just one possibility. Who says their arguments are valid? What if I said I don't find their points valid? You say it is not a matter of being open-minded, but this is coming from people who are not open-minded themselves and some criticize for not being. There really is a limit to how open-minded one can be before it starts to interfere with personal beliefs. Beliefs that people should be respecting, but are not. It's like the religious debates we have now where people think that Christiana need to be open-minded and accept birth control or what not, but at the same time these same people refuse to admit that stuff like that is part of their beliefs they wish not to break. You can't tell others to accept different people, yet not accept that they are different from you regardless of valid points.
Admittedly, that would probably be looked upon as an unorthodox approach to declare that one's assumption of another person's argument being valid is "bad" Their arguments may not necessarily hold any validity to themselves, that is why you analyze it and come to a conclusion from the information you provide. I acknowledge the validity there is to the potential of their argument being accurate or correct in some manner, but not that what they state specifically is veritable. Did I ever insist or claim that people here should adopt an alternative perspective of the fandom? Well somewhat, yes, but to the degree in which you appear to be suggesting that my insistence is excessive is not true. Assigning an arbitrary limit to define the boundary between whether accepting and implementing alternative approaches will impede one's personal beliefs doesn't work as the exact limits to what each individual person's level of tolerance varies. Though I am not sure as to what your boundaries are I make a clear distinction between what I personally believe may be the "correct" perspective of the manga and how others analyze what information Kishimoto provides in his writing.
I fully accept the differences between people. In fact that is precisely what I have also been stating in my other posts. To acknowledge that a myraid of interpretations exist but if they don't want to do that then of course they are liberty to deny that notion. It's their decisions to come to and if they believe differently then that is perfectly acceptable.
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It is also like my discussions about whether or not Sasuke is evil and whether or not he actually can have a redemption if people don't think he was evil to being with. Eventually you have to draw the line somewhere to differentiate what is what, but this not to use a judgmental tone of course, just a matter of classifying based on grouping.
Well his intentions and actions could be defined as selfish as he chooses to associate the entirety of Konoha with the few people who were actually entangled in the massacring of his clan. The moralistic ambiguity to his clan's demise isn't a justification to murder people who have not wronged him in any manner or kidnap a man to be killed by a terrorist organization in order to further their own objectives. I agree that a boundary for Sasuke's actions needs to be defined and I am quite adamant that he should be punished in some capacity. Whether you or anyone else may possibly be in contention with that prospect is perfectly fine albeit it would be confusing to hear someone attest to his possible exoneration from all of his actions.
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But in all matters you ask whether not their is consistency in their arguments. Eventually you're gonna find stuff that is inconsistent even in the most open-minded people who try to tell what they want. You end up asking questions like why would they hate Sakura from Naruto, but love Naru from Love Hina when they exhibit the same behavior or even when Naru exhibits worse behavior? Then you find that there is no logical reason behind it beyond that they just find one character more tolerable than the other. Sure it could be based on bias for a pairing or the behavior that the character exhibits. Heck, I have seen people hate characters because of one scene in the manga and that's it.
If their statements are incoherent and/or they suggest they were created primarily from favouritism then that could be perceived as a point to differentiate between what warrants an actual retort and what does not. However, to deny even the possibility that their post may have been reasonable prior to reading it is something that I honestly believe is unacceptable. Whether there is value or not to the concept that most of the proponents of any opposing fandom are relying on nothing but personal bias they should at least be offered the opportunity to prove that their thoughts are centred around supporting evidence and logic, not just propensity. If you would contest against that idea then that's perfectly acceptable although I would begin to question why they could not even be offered the chance to explain their thoughts.
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And no, I don't think it is right to force people to accept a different view if they don't want to. Of course, then you may ask "then why fight?" Sometimes it is fun to debate things regardless of who wins or loses. Sometimes it is fun to see different viewpoints even though you know they are full of crap. There are days when I talk to NaruHina fans, because I find their logic funny. To me, it is wrong logic. In my world, they are wrong, but again, the real world is not mine. The only world in my mind is the one I choose to accept exists. Like an artist painting on canvas. Bob Ross says many of times when painting: "This is your world and in your world you can do whatever you want in it. If you want to make the grass blue, make it blue."
As I have already stated countless times, they're recommendations, not demands. They can completely disregard what someone else claims if they want and treat the opinion as if it were utter crap. But granted that reaction may result in an inquiry as to why they believe that way. The other comments you have made in that response sound quite cruel, regardless if their thoughts may be incorrect or not, but if that is how you find amusement then good for you.
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This is why my personal motto is of the utmost important to me:
"I am not what everyone thinks I am, but I am everything someone wants me to be."
It's like the relationship I have here on the forum: Some see me as this great post writer and one of the more intelligent people on this forum while others see me as stupid and think I am full of it. I am both yet I am none in the same. I even have fallouts with people on the forum and especially with one in particular. I am not going to tell you who it is because that would be incriminating and by judging how this forum works would be considered a form of bashing even though my only problem is with their attitudes. (And no, it is not an obvious answer as you might think it is and not someone you might believe they are.) Regardless, we see each other as bitter enemies and I know they are trying their best to either make me look bad or try to catch me at a point of weakness. Little do they know they do the same, but I have never even pointed it out. I have proof that they even spy on me, but again this is not part of the matter at hand. The point is, how they see me is not who or what I really am.
Well it does sound like you begrudge that person. Personally, I can't say that I would support resenting someone although I have to confess to having similar thoughts in my mind as well. Another individual's opinion may be how they define you but the validity to their presumptions could very well be questionable in nature. That doesn't negate the value that should be assigned that they may be accurate but if it is not accordance with how you actually are then that may perhaps be the closest to what someone may proclaim as being a factual interpretation of another person's opinion being wrong.
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Whay is a more important aspect of our existence: How we view ourselves or how others think of us? Should we care on what others think of us? When you start to constantly question on others and how they think you end up not questioning them, but rather questioning yourself. You wonder why you do the things you do and believe the way you believe. The facts and points are only valid if you want them to be. No more, no less.
Both have validity to the question presented. Yes, there is only so much worth that someone should assign to their personal beliefs and that is entirely up to them but if their beliefs were claimed to be incorrect by others and if they were provided evidence to verify or support the inaccuracy in their sentiments? Should that person obstinately cling to what they belief is the truth or should they at least acknowledge what the others are claiming to see if there is any value to what they say?
Should there not be a boundary to how dedicated someone is to their opinions?
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So here is a question on a more personal agenda: Why do I hate Hinata, but like Zashiki-warashi from xXxHolic, a character who is almost the same in every aspect? The answer could be more obvious then what you might think it is. I'll give a hint.
To be honest, I'm not really concerned about that. I just want to cease with this damned argument now because it consumes so much time.
Similar cautions have been expressed by other members many times, and I think it has been duly noted by those for whom the advice is useful. And honestly, considering how rattled and outright shattered some people get around here any time chapter events appear even slightly contrary to NS, it seems clear that complacency is not an issue.
I guess I just don't get why people can't enjoy what they enjoy. If there was ever a place for NS fans to get together and daydream and speculate and have fun with the possibilities, a NS fan site ought to be it.
If they want to do that then let them. Some of the comments in this debate topic appeared to be , shall we say, assured in NS's inevitability. Perhaps it's merely an attempt to increase morality or maybe that interpreation of their posts is incorrect entirely. I will discard this issue however as you are correct that it has been restated countless times now.
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I understood you were referring to the NH fandom's interpretation. I was questioning if you agreed with them or not, considering your use of the word "distorted."
I don't agree with them, no, but I do believe in the existence of a possibility that the statement may have been referring to 615. The word "distorted' was a product of personal bias admittedly as it is how I believe it to be for their notion of MK resembling NH.
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Please allow me to be more precise. Collective in the "marked by similarity" definition of the word. That this is a NS fan site, and it is reasonable to assume that a significant portion of the members and contributors here subscribe in whole or in part to the concept of NS potentially being the final pairing of the story. I did not mean collective in the Borg sense, lol, as if we are all of one mind. I understand that not everyone agrees on every aspect of every argument.
I see now, thank you for the correction of my assumption.
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As with other plot points -- such as #615 and Minato's arrival in #630 -- I'm personally going to wait and see the next steps with Sasuke before I reach any conclusions as to what will or won't happen. There is more to the story yet, and I prefer to leave room for forthcoming events to shed more light on Sasuke's supposed change of heart before I presume Naruto will have no role in what happens.
I do agree with this. Let's see what happens before establishing any judgement on the matter.
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Oh, I could definitely end up surprised and disappointed, but I won't have any trouble admitting that I either interpreted the signs wrong, or that I was wrong about Kishimoto's integrity as a writer, or both.
Another disparity between our opinions of the matter. You do have more strength than myself for accepting that possibility, admittedly.